What I learned being here (feel free to share thoughts)

[Anonymous]

1. It can not be this hard to find a partner, we are a small community an I am from the most densely populated region in the country (USA)
2. For the ladies, when I ask you for FT or a call off site it is because I need to verify you are real, why is it that we are under the impression that men are always the ones scamming, robbing, perverting, time wasting. our safety matters too
3. What kind of feedback are you providing when u leave someone on seen, at least respond so they can better their approach moving forward, and trust me I am always courteous and polite and not a pervert, because I was taught to always show respect even in something as taboo as this

Stop wasting people’s time

Any feedback on this is greatly appreciated

[Laura]

I’m pretty sure if I don’t respond it’s not me wasting time it’s me being crazy busy, real life gets in the way.
Us women also get ALOT of messages and it really is just overbearing.
I’ve been really lucky but some clearly aren’t, be patient give it time and eventually things will happen.
I wish you luck x

[Vinman]

Joey,

You asked for feedback. Here goes….

1. Lose the sunglasses. Don’t hide your eyes. They are the window to the soul. Women want to see them.

2. Turn your photo right side up.

3. You can do a lot better in your profile than “looking to try new things” Start with the kind of relationship are you looking for. ANR only? Full relationship?

4. Your 2nd point is totally off base. Implying that any women on this site are scammers will get you absolutely nowhere……fast.

5. Your above post contains misspelled words and bad grammar.

6. “Something as taboo as this”. You’re kidding, right?
Sure, there are likely quite a few people in the “Gen pop” who would view ANR that way, but to make that kind of “broad brush” statement to the 12,000+ folks who have joined this great community is not a good idea.

Time to “drop the mike” I wish you every success here.

[Anonymous]

You’re 22 years old Joey. Most people haven’t even done anal at your age. Give it some time.

[Anonymous]

Your profile wouldnt do anything for me and before you criticise mine, mine was very full until I stopped looking and deleted most of it and it clearly states non looking. You are 22 years old. I suggest you get off here and get some real life experiences with real women.

[The Other Tom]

It looks as though a little brushback from some of the grownups here left Joey a bit demoralized.

[Anonymous]

Oh dear he left. Oh well.

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