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Okay so first off- I don’t know how to use this very well so if it’s confusing I apologize. Anyways, I am pretty young (early 20s) and I think my generation is pretty good about being open with kinks and that kinda stuff…but then you hear about abf and it’s crickets. I just wish there wasn’t so much shame around this. Idk maybe it’s just me. I just don’t even think I can bring myself to ask someone to participate in something like this. And I mean not that you guys aren’t all great. I really appreciate having a community that I can share this with but it’s SUCKS that we’re forced to these dark corners of the Internet to meet, chat and explore. I’d probably die on the spot if anyone I knew ever recognized me from here.
My first boyfriend and I kind of stumbled upon an anr, like for example we wouldn’t have ever call it that. And it wasn’t something either of us really asked the other. He would kind of begin to suckle during foreplay and it was really hard to dial down the expression of my pleasure and then boom he’d be suckling for hours. And it was really REALLY nice. I mean you don’t need me to tell you there are plenty of women on here who can attest to the insanity that is nipple orgasms. But even just that- sometimes he would get too excited and over stimulate them and it’d hurt or just be hurried. And or he’d anticipate sex in a way that made it feel icky when really (I didn’t know this then) I just wanted the long drawn out experience of intimacy that real hour long suckling could bring. Sometimes I just wanted to feel his mouth and its gentle tug in the depth of my breast from soft latching. Like my breast was a breeze and his sweet suction a deep breath. And yes I will be aroused. I can’t help it most of the time
– hell I’m throbbing as I write this… what was the point? But it isn’t always about getting off. It would be nice to imagine that it brought him comfort, because it brought me comfort. I’d stroke his hair and hold his head in my arms and fall asleep when it was casual like that ( it wasn’t often). Even just holding my breast in position for him- that seems so weird to express especially when you know that the other person doesn’t get it like you do. Idk. I’m just really grateful for this place. This is goodbye for now though. I am currently dating .. and it seems like the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in so I really want to give it a strong shot (I do really like him) but I just can’t see us having an anr the way I’d hoped for and that’s okay, but like I said I couldn’t deal with anyone, even someone I’m falling for seeing this because… well let’s just say the rest of my life is embarrassing enough as is. But thank you all. (Maybe I’ll be back one day but for now I need to make sure this is untraceable to my email Dx)You’re spot on when saying that it isn’t always about getting off. Breastfeeding on its own is an intimate experience. They’re almost nothing better than being with someone sharing the moment such as we desire.
Take care and the best of luck to you.You expressed your thoughts very well and in a way many will be able to relate to. I felt your words. Best of luck in your new relationship and I hope you have an opportunity to show that person what you enjoy, if not able to find a way to verbalize it.
I don’t understand myself why anr is taboo. I personally have not heard anyone say negative things about it, but I dont bring it up either. I don’t think anyone should feel shame for consensual activities with another adult, that harm no one.
It’s clearly been around a long time and isn’t going away anytime soon.
Long may we all suckle and be suckled. Life is too short not to do what makes you happy.
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