Suckling in the dark

[Konsta]

Hello, all!

I’m Konsta from Finland and have been blind since birth. I decided to share my thoughts on here, you can PM me yours or answer this topic, I find PMs easier though.

Being blind, I’ve still always had a passion for breasts. People have told me that all men do, that it’s nothing unusual. However I think it is, in a way. Because I cannot see the pictures of those wonderful boobies that are posted all over the place, I sometimes ask people to describe the pictures to me, or to describe their looks before we have met (so that I can imagine them right ;)). More often than not the answer is, oh I cannot describe. This is what I don’t understand. How come you can send pictures but cannot describe the parts the pictures show to anyone with eyesight, that is, the breasts? I think that, since sighted people can see the pictures and videos, I have an equal right to ask for a description, and get an answer.

I haven’t yet found my ABF/ANR partner, however I’m constantly looking. Relocation is not an issue for me, as long as the bond is there. I enjoy living in the dark and even though some tasks are impossible for me, or require more than they would from a sighted person, I think my quality of life is pretty good. The only missing piece is a partner, or, suckling sessions in a more open group if it comes to that. I’m willing to travel in any case.

If you have questions about blindness, or anything really, shoot me a message. I’ll gladly answer, PMs faster than on the forum though.

Have a lovely day!

P.S: I am so glad to have found this community, I’m hoping for it to bloom into something wonderous!

[James]

Hello Konsta. I am asking this question in the forum because others may be interested in your reply. Please, how do you manage communicating via the internet? Thank you.

[Konsta]

Hello!
I use a screen reader software called NVDA (Non-Visual Desktop Access) on my computer, and on my iPhone an accessibility feature called VoiceOver. Those two programs allow me to utilize computers and phones similarly to how everyone eles does it. 🙂

[LadyOceana]

I was wondering the same so glad James asked the question!

Welcome Konsta, may you find your heart’s desires.

[Welshie🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿]

Hi Konsta,

I think a lot of us lack the knowledge and understanding of how to describe things properly to someone who is visually impaired or fully blind.

I really wouldn’t know where to start. For instance, I use a lot of colours in descriptions and I don’t know how that would translate for you.

I’m sure it’s not that people are unwilling or unable to give descriptions. Its more that we don’t understand how you would like those descriptions to be formed and are really nervous of appearing to be ignorant or offensive in any way.

Maybe offering us a bit of an education in what would work for you might help?

I wish you luck anyway,

Welshie xx

[Konsta]

Hello.
I understand that, I know from getting to know sighted people that it can be hard to describe things.
I cannot speak for the whole blind community, but for myself, I assure you that I’m not easily offended. Colors, for instance, enrich my descriptions as well. I don’t know what they look like, but I still think they are important. You don’t need to describe colors themselves though, just the names are enough 🙂 like blue etc.
My advice would be to encounter a blind person much the same way you would a sighted one. I know it can be hard, even if you don’t think of it you might still unconsciously do so, but I’m open for discussions and questions.
I encourage you to ask rather than not to. 🙂
Hope this helps.

[Galacta]

I have a friend who is blind and I’ve described many things for him, but never breasts, so here goes; Breasts come in an endless variety of shapes and sizes. Some are long and hang low, some are firm and stay close to the chest wall. Some are soft and squishy and some feel full and tight. Imagine a water balloon. Instead of a knot, there is a nipple surround by a colored aura. Some nipples are small, some are thick, but most point slightly out towards the woman’s arms when she is lying on her back. Mine are full and the weight of them makes them hang lower when my bra is off but my nipples stay hard almost all of the time so they are constantly pointing upwards and out. Each breast is a more than a handful and feels substantial in your hand. My areolas are dark pink and my skin is medium dark for a white woman. I am not looking but hopefully this gives the single ladies an idea of how to be more descriptive.

[Konsta]

Hello.
Thanks for a very detailed description. 🤗 I’ve had the honour of having a girlfriend in the past, so the general description, shall we say, of breasts is known to me. 🙂

[Anonymous]

Konsta: I have heard that blind people have enhanced sensory abilities with regard to touch, smell, taste, and hearing. Is any of that true for you. I truly hope you find a partner for ABF/ANR and get to enjoy this amazing and highly pleasurable experience.

[Konsta]

Yes, hearing and touch especially are enhanced since I use hearing to navigate. I call it the bat instinct, navigate by using sound echoes.

[Konsta]

I just added a few pictures and songs to my gallery. Hopefully they’re visible 🙂 I’m not sure about the pictures, they are from older to current, the ones where I have ponytails are newer. Those are self-taken so not sure how well they succeeded. 🙂

[Konsta]

I have to add to the enhanced senses one that during the winter it’s pretty hard to navigate using echoes, as snow muffles sounds and thus echoes as well. Otherwise it’s pretty cool to be able to navigate with just your ears, avoiding obstacles etc. Of course I use a white cane as well, but for most avoidance of obstacles the echoes I hear, or rather, the echoes sounds make when I haer them help me avoid things. 🙂

[Michael_Admin]

Hi Konsta, I’m the site administrator.

The pictures & audio you uploaded are accessible to logged-in users only. All’s good.

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