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I did 256 job applications, 3 interviews to get me 1 job.
I applied to 5 university’s, 4 declined my application, just to get ACCEPTED into 1.The point I’m trying to make is that there’s always light at the end of the tunnel and there’s nothing wrong with trying putting on a good impression, be nice be respectful and failing to try in the process to get that one. All we can do is our best
So do it.For the guys out there I get it, you get ignored, women wasting your time, getting ghosted on trust me i know what it feels (even they know what it feels like)
it’s not a sin to go for what you want even if you get rejected, we move on take that rejection and fuel yourself to the next person, cast your net and search at different places and you never know what could come your way, if she wants to trust me she will, ask your questions get your information and come to your own conclusions.
I may not be half of the things women are looking for and that’s OK.
Am I still gonna sleep tonight? Yes
Am I still gonna go to work tomorrow? Yes
Am I still gonna wake up happy as sh*t? Hell Fricking Yes.
Its never gonna be the end for me so why should it be for you?So if a woman gives off rude, disrespectful , shallow energy, dishonesty and out of order behaviour and she rejects you in the dms, smile about it and move on cause is that what you want? I don’t think so.
Let being rejected protect you from harmful people and unwanted problems.
What isn’t broken won’t need fixing.
Well said Jay…!
Very well said. Not only for men,women also. It happens to all at one time or another. Pick yourself up and move on, something better is planned for you in the future.
@jessica654u I was originally gonna make this post specifically for men as This site has a higher amount of men to women not many men will win in here don’t mean they won’t win out there or somewhere else. But I 100% agree it goes down to both genders.
Words of wisdom, Jay. I couldn’t agree with you more. The right one is out there for each of us.
Excellent post, Jay! Your statement is so true, it isn’t rejection, it’s just a reminder that this person is not the one for you….that one is coming.
@justjay,
Succinct, timely and thoughtfully inspirational. Well done.
Thanks Jay….we all need to look at everything in a postive way. If a door shuts there are more to open.
Lovely post and something I’d say almost every adult has experienced in one shape or form I’m sure.
Thank you everyone I wish you all well,
It may just be a season where your running dry and nothings coming through for you but you never who you could meet next or even the person may come to you, remember it’s never the end.
What a great post! Both women and men experience rejection on this site. I’m dealing with a bit of unease myself at this time. Thank you for reminding us that experiencing rejection is just part of life. I guess it will let us appreciate it all the more when we find a better connection. Kudos to you.
Plus a million.
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