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Do you have a preference for what you’d want some ones profile to have as their initial photo?
ToT gave me some great tips for my profile which I’m going to implement soon (thanks again too!).
For Photos though, I’ve got mine private as I make my living through social media. If things were public I’d be afraid of being exposed in a way.
Was thinking about profile photos, and it had me wondering what others prefer.
Face, body, both?
I likely won’t ever have mine including my face (other than my photos for Friend Requests) as people who are un-registered on the site can see Avatars.
That aside, hope everyone’s weekend has gone great!
IDK, you’re profile picture is nice to look at 😂😂😂
Profile pictures are the “first impression” of you. What people are looking for is going to be different, so the “first impression” profile picture desires are going to vary. But they can deter someone if it is not tasteful.
I personally enjoy when their profile picture falls in line with what they are looking for within ANR/ABF. When the person (whether it is a head shot, body shot, full body, etc) looks relaxed, comfy, confident, and inviting, the better. It makes me feel more comfortable with them right off the bat.
I also enjoy when their profile pic is something about them/about their personality. If the enjoy the outdoors and hiking, then seeing a pic of them hiking makes me feel connected to them or give me an inclination of what they are like/their personality.
If they don’t feel comfortable with showing a pic of themselves, then an ANR/ABF related avatar is great! Something similar to what I have as my profile picture. But if it a meme or whatnot that says “I love boobs” or something of the sorts… that is a turn off. We get that everyone here loves boobs! That’s why we are all here! Duhhhh! Or a nature pic or anything really is great as well.
Anything is better than the ABFHeaven standard/initial avatar.
What Jenn said 🙂 something to tell me about the person. And of course a nicely written profile also helps know if you’re compatible or just here to be a player.
Hi Trey, and thank you for the compliment. I try to assist a lot of newcomers to the site because I felt so awkward when I first became a member. It took me months to get comfortable with the concept of ANR and ABF to even understand it.
Water Lily and Jenn both have excellent points and everyone is going to have a different attraction to what they are looking for. There’s a ton of dynamics to attraction. Something to keep in mind though might include a lot of men whom aren’t as honest often photo shop their pics. As well, many women might be intimidated by such a gorgeous pic as yours with those phenomenal you exhibit…Many of us not being a magazine cover bathing suit model, lol.
Because the site is predominantly breast and suckle focused….I look for and like to see a man’s face from about the bridge of the nose to his chin, Michael_Admin would be an excellent example of a good Avatar pic, with your Ab pic perhaps as the background?….with a nice smile or grin.
@lacgal77 you should see Treys media files, just saying.
I just sent a friend request just to see 😂
I believe any profile photo aside from the generic is a great plus. I gravitate towards profile photos that match the profile/personality of the site user.
I value anonymity despite sharing my boobs on my blog. I have a recognizable face within certain circles. I will never share my face. However, I am channeling my inner Valkyrie at the moment and it shows 🙂
Lol though my opinion is mine alone. I find it odd when men post pictures of boobs as a profile picture and/or their open mouth. Neither of these are appealing.
I tend to also stay clear of profile names with the “69” in it. Thoughs profiles tend to ONLY be seeking sexual gratification.
Hope this helps.
Ps your profile pic looks great!
The ladies above all have good points. Some of the generic generated avatars can be quite humorous. Who doesn’t think that a purple triangle with a gap toothed grin is funny?😜
The low res circle works for me if something about the person is displayed. Floral top, a meme, intricate mask, humorous charcuterie, etc… Tell me something about yourself. About your personality. Boobs are okay too!
Mine is about damn perfect.
😜😂🤣I don’t care what the profile pic is. More interested in observing how the individual interacts on the site and their personality, which will then possibly initiate a private message intro from me. Forum contributions are a fascinating insight into value sets and opinions too, which gives an indicator of compatibility or not. I’m ok with rejection as I’m not going to shift who I am naturally, to fit someone else’s desires, and neither do I want someone that shifts to attract me. We aren’t all attracted to each other and that’s perfectly ok. No need for egos to get bent out of shape or spitting the dummy if we get rejected. It’s life.
I do however expect honesty and openness enough to be able to at least provide a facial pic and name once some kind of rapport and trust has been built. I of course will happily provide the same courtesy, and am usually the one to initiate such.
Really appreciates everyone’s responses! Lot of good points were brought up
At most I might change it where a bit of my jaw shows, one where I’m not looking as lean, or me doing an activity. Never occurred that I might be intimidating some others away!
@tremont22, the “I think I am too overweight for user xyz…” is a regular thought that I have applied to many a profile on dating sites.
My operating assumption there is “birds of a feather flock together”.
Love your profile pic but if you messaged me id think no way hes absolutely out of my league. Thats just me though.
I love to see nice lips and smile. Hate the pics with one eye on display. It gives me stalker vibes.
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