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I truly have no problem with those looking outside serious relationships or those practicing ethical non-monogamy, that’s between you and your partner(s). But I am kind of vexed with the folks on that site who don’t put it in their bio/aren’t upfront about it early on. I am personally not interested in that kind of dynamic and I think there are more than a few folks on this site that would agree. Please make it clear from the beginning so that no one wastes their time and gets let down.
Agree! Men–DON’T VEX US. That’s the last thing you really want.
People who are just in here for curiosity or so called sessions instead of a relationship, or a friendship at least should declare that, there are some men around here who just say what one wants to hear in order to get an experience, for that they could either pay girls who give sessions or for money or they should state it clearly they are only interested on a woman’s flesh, I am sure that is flattering to some.
That is correct guy. Women and men do the same thing. And just like women don’t want to be judged when they want a man on the side, we can’t expect men to not want to be judged either
Yes, it would be great if folks were encouraged / reminded to declare if they were married, enm, etc.
It saves time, and clarifies the type of connection possible.
Consider me “declared.”
I’ve found it’s good practice both to disclose my status in my profile AND to bring it up early in conversation (after a rapport is established, but before plans to meet are made). Because let’s face it: many people don’t read profiles, and plenty of those who do can’t be bothered to google the terms they don’t understand.
I’d love to see monogamous folk declare themselves in their profiles as well. Just because it’s the norm, doesn’t mean it must remain unsaid. I don’t want to waste my time or energy any more than I want to waste yours.
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