› Personal Ads & Forum › General Discussion › Need better verification strategy here, way too many fakes
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October 24, 2021 at 5:44 pm #48715
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InactiveI’m real!!! I like this site as it’s about the best! Thanks Micheal!!
Sorry about your luck, gotta say this search is tough, real or fake 😂
October 24, 2021 at 7:19 pm #48745Will have to say I have not run into fake people. Some people join then decide this site is not for them. So sometimes I will get a message but by the time I have read the message that person is a deleted account. I will say that I don’t like when the username is Anonymous or their profile only says I’m new to this. All in all I have to say the admin does a good job of staying on top of things and making updates. Having been on 3 and 4 other ABF/ANR sites over the last 5 yrs this one is the best.
The biggest problem is we are a group that is still considered taboo and not many have experienced this type of relationship so yes, some are just checking out the site. Second is location location location.
So some may message you even if you are in another state or country just to talk and get your opinion.
The whole bot thing your talking about I have never experienced that here.
And yes I have met 3 different people on this site and they were all very nice.
October 24, 2021 at 7:32 pm #48750I agree with Storm and Kat. Michael has done wonderful job running this site and come this far. I have seen him working tirelessly since the beginning. Before we had few admin to help him. We should appreciate his work and this site.
This is only ANR site which has good interaction with members.
If you don’t like, there are plenty of websites, who will charge you and still full of spammers and scammers.
Let us appreciate what we have.October 25, 2021 at 2:18 am #48979Anonymous
InactiveThere are a lot of discussing guys on here. Juicy is right on with that.
October 25, 2021 at 2:30 am #48987Anonymous
InactiveI’m very grateful for this site and I haven’t encountered any fakes. I’ve found partners and met some lovely people. It takes time, honesty, patience and effort. But then again so do all the greatest things in life. ❤️
October 25, 2021 at 2:32 am #48988Anonymous
InactiveThree cheers for Michael! Someone give that man some gorgeous breasts and a kind heart.
October 25, 2021 at 7:58 am #49077Yeah but that could happen on any site if a person intentions aren’t real. The only way to alleviate this problem if everybody pays a high monthly subscription. But this site is free which is also perfect. You have to take the good with the bad.
October 25, 2021 at 8:05 am #49083I was talking with someone for months and felt I ultimately wasted my time and the person was disingenuous and insincere. They literally visited the site everyday. Made post and did not return any of my messages, despite us messaging each other day-to-day for months and making plans. There was never a argument between us.
But you have to move on these things happen everywhere there is no perfect dynamic.
October 26, 2021 at 12:39 am #49431I have to agree with @luv2cuddle Michael does an amazing job with this site without charging members a penny or receiving revenue for ads. The time and cost for that kind of verification would be high. I’ve looked into becoming a matchmaker for ABF and all the work it would involve and I highly doubt most people would want to pay for that kind of service.
I have also met some lovely guys from here. Unfortunately distance and Covid made it impossible to meet irl but they were definitely real because we had video calls. Some who were reluctant to video call and share up to date pictures made me wary but that was the minority.
October 26, 2021 at 1:04 am #49452Anonymous
InactiveI’ve not encountered any Fakes – Some reply some don’t – Thats their choice I don’t see them as a fake account, have chatted to a few lovely ladies some in the U.K. & some abroad.
The site is fine as it is, I’m not really sure what some expect on a free internet site 🤷🏻♂️
I live life in the real world warts & all, Not some Dream state idealistic world.Great site – Michael 👍🏻 😀
October 27, 2021 at 7:57 pm #50332I think you are confusing fake with not what you are looking for.
October 31, 2021 at 4:25 pm #51991To me I didn’t have high expectation when I first joined the site. Given the natural of the subject and it is a free site, I expected a lot of fakes. However I did met someone real and very nice within 3 months, and I have to say it was one of the best experience I have had in years. Now I am a believer and hope I can continue with that lady.
October 31, 2021 at 6:53 pm #52033Anonymous
InactiveI’ve only been here for a few days but so far it seems like a really friendly and welcoming place.
February 12, 2022 at 8:00 am #100960Anonymous
InactiveWell from my 24 years of looking for love and marriage! I can tell you the internet is not the way to find a suitable candidate! But if my profile was fake, then why have I not a fucking dime to my name? Could it be because I’m making the other person happy! And getting shit on! Or lets be honest! I’m looking for the perfect soulmate!
February 13, 2022 at 4:05 am #101312I will say I have not come across any fake people , yes some are a little strange and a few are rude.
All in all, 90% are very nice.
I have found 3 nursing partners here and you have to just be patient and filter out the bad ones.
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