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This is where I will put my journey for those that are interested. It saves me having to repeat myself on private messages.
🥰💋Thankyou to those amazing people here that have welcomed me, and shared their advice and experiences. I’m new to this world so bear with me Lol. 😅😘
I will add more as I have time &/or as changes happen. 💋 xx Milky 🥛🌊How did I get into ABF?
I had an urge to want to ABF with my 2nd childs birth. I didnt even know it was a thing. All I knew, was that I wanted that suckling, feeding, closeness, and mysteriously new feeling with my man.
I remember times where I could feel my ducts emptying, feel the suckling sensation, the letdown of milk would happen, and I would feel an almost orgasmic wave over my senses… but hubby had no interest at all. I felt like a wierdo so I let it be…Fast forward 8 years to this pregnancy & my raging hormones have brought back the thoughts of ABF again. My colostrum started coming in at 20weeks and I was gone… totally obsessed. I started googling breastfeeding for adults this time… I cant be the only one feeling this way… I came across this page, and realised there are many of us out there. I felt at home. I felt others were explaining exactly how I was feeling, my wants and desires seemed to be acceptable here, openly spoken about. And unfortunately how many others are alone in this journey with AND without current partners.
This was my problem… my partner, my loving husband, was very wierded out 8 years ago. How do I approach this?
I play with my breasts one morning (haha who am I kidding… play everyday lol), to see how much I could express at 20weeks… I had little yellow drops. I was excited… do I tell hubby… do I see if he notices… I dont want to scare him off…Advice was needed…
I posted in these forums, hoping for a miracle 🙏 lol. I had some responses that I appreciate very much. However, I am the only one that knows my hubby and how he is. He was raised conservatively, which he doesnt care much for, however with things like erotic things, I definitely need and desire far more than he ever has.
So applying any tips, tricks, advice, would need to be done ever so cautiously, so that I didn’t ruin everything. I dont have much patience and that is my problem, not his.
I thought I would guide some foreplay to test the waters… unfortunately as much as I have a high sex drive, my husband does not. So on the next lucky occassion, I ensured he spent time on my breasts, which he liked doing before, so we will see how it goes… all was well, lots of nipple play and sucking, then he stopped and moved on… why, I wondered? He spent longer on my breasts in the past… we had a lovely love making session and that was it.
I decided to ask him the next day, what was with the boobs getting a bit bypassed… he said he tasted milk and got wierded out by it, so moved on…
Not what I wanted to hear. So, I asked what was wierd? He said he feels like “oh now they are the babies boobs, so ill leave them be”… grrr the baby is not even here yet lol. … ok, so how do I change this thought of his?… I then explained to him that they are always his, and I actually want him to spend more time on them, that I really enjoy them getting attention, especially some more gentle sucking would be nice😉😉. He gave me a funny look, laughed, and said I am a crazy pregnant lady, sure we will see next time.Mission Impossible Commenced…
So, a few days go by, I get frustrated, and ask can we please try some boob play focusing on some nice suckling. I tried to sell it with no sex required, I would do almost anything to get him to please try. I was responded by a comment that threw me… He thought I must want him to act like a baby! (No offense to anybody that enjoys that, however that was not my intention), I explained to hubby NO WAY, Almost the opposite, I want you to take me, to feed off me…. but not as a baby! I want something even more primal, a different dimension of intimacy to share my breasts like I am a meal you wish to devour, gently taking my breast into your mouth where it feels warm and moist where you suck however you want, for as long as you want, almost melting into one being. Explaining more that I want to feel a sense of tender closeness, that doesn’t need to end in sex. He was very confused by my strange request. Usually I am begging for sex, and since pregnancy even more so. So, the fact I took sex off the table meant it really must mean something to me, and so he agreed to humour my weird new need…
So… the groundwork was laid… later in the bedroom, he started by some nipple play, which was good, but I wanted to try for an actual latch, to feel an actual nursing session. It was all I could think of… So, after a little time he started sucking my nipples harder, I then asked for him to put more of my boob into his mouth. Now my nipple is in his mouth, but I wanted my whole areolas in there, so I helped him and grabbed my breast and fed it in further. Now we were getting somewhere.
I stroked his hair, ran my fingers gently down his back and arm, gently caressing him as he suckled. I could feel the warmth, the pressing between his tongue and his palate. His tongue did some gentle, and then almost stimulating action & I groaned with desire, he picked up on the feedback and continued. He suckled for a few mins on each side, I was very turned on, I was finally feeling hubby actually suckling, which is probably what ended the nice suckling action, as now He could see and feel how much I was enjoying this, and it lead to more nipple play, biting tugging, (in a good way, I wasn’t complaining), and I felt like I couldn’t hold back anymore… so I decided to reward him by pleasuring him with my mouth and throat, and after this we both rode to great orgasms.We had some progress! Woohoo! I was over the moon!
But, what I didn’t realise, is it’s not that easy. The true ABF/ANR lifestyle I desired is still a dream. This was almost a tease. I didn’t magically wake up to hubby suckling on my breast in the morning, or grabbing at me for a feed once our son was at school. But I did wake up feeling satisfied, feeling that my breasts feel more relaxed, yet more veiny! Lol. My nipples as usual erect and horny as ever…
What was next, how do I re-inforce that this suckling was what I wanted more of? …
Sounds like some real progress, MO! Some men it seems view ABF as a sort of infantilistic activity but certainly not most. I love not only the look and feel of one of women’s most distinctive characteristics but what they can do is awesome! So feminine and erotic. Good luck to you!
Strike while the iron is hot! …
When I hand expressed later that morning, I was surprised there was now dribbles of milk coming out, not just little drops. I would estimate a probable 4-5 mls (not much I know), but it was amazing to see one suckling session respond with an actual increase. The milk was not a yellow orange colour anymore, and was more creamy yellow.
I let hubby sleep-in, we both are shift-workers, and sleep is so important!
I messaged a select few people back in my private messages of how excited I was, I had progress.
Now while having my morning coffee, I perused the forum posts of others, reading others experiences, questions, stories, even did a puzzle Lol.
Then I thought of what the next step was.I wanted a nursing session during the day. Maybe I strike while the iron is hot! So, once he woke up, I asked him how he felt about the previous night. He said he still thinks I’m weird, but he didn’t mind it. Not exactly the response I wanted, but not totally negative either.
I again thanked him, as this breastfeeding thing was something I had wanted for a very long time, and I didn’t want to ignore my desire anymore. I again had to reassure him that I did not look at him as a baby, or some submissive type thing, that I actually wanted the opposite, for him to become more dominant, and to suckle from me as much as possible. Again he laughed and called me the usual “you really are a sex maniac, but Ill give it a go”.After lunch, he was happy to have me in the bedroom to try another suckle. He laid next to me, I arranged myself to be slightly higher in the bed, and my breasts were perfectly placed in front of him. He suckled, and I played with his hair, and back again. Slowly caressing him, as he entertained my crazy taboo ABF fetish (his thoughts, not mine).
I struggle here, It’s what I wanted, I am watching his mouth latch on my breast, his eyes are closed, it feels wonderful, I enjoy as he swaps to my other breast, I lean forward more so that he can reach nicely. He spends a few more minutes than the night before, I breathe more heavily, I can’t help it…. I’m biting my lip trying to contain myself, I want this to last forever. But at the same time I know he isn’t used to this, and I don’t want him to hate the experience.
It’s a struggle in my head, as I contemplate my next step… but my senses are in overload… he can tell I’m enjoying it. I can feel he is hard, his hands move to feel how wet I am, and I start to massage his hard member. Yes, I knew this would end the session shortly, but it felt right for us. I wanted it to be rewarding for not just me but him as well. And that daytime session was great!
Again, this 2nd session ending in sex, but I believe he enjoyed seeing me turned on so much. So, I will take this as another tick in the progress book for us!
Twice in 24 hours! I was a very lucky girl. This is very rare for hubby. He really doesn’t have much drive. So I continued to let him know how much I appreciated it as the day went on. He did tell me afterwards, which I think was kinda funny…. “The suck & Fuck shop is now closed” Lol. He would now go onto his work shifts the following days, so any chance of intimate time was now off limits for me. But I was happy, we had made progress!
…. Or had we? …
Before I write the next few pieces of my ABF Journey, I would like to explain a few things to whoever reads this…
I have been with hubby for over 14 years, we are happily married. But Our sex drive and intimacy levels are unmatched. He is quite calm, but never instigates any connection. He loves me, he enjoys it when we are together, he just isn’t one of those people that gropes me, desires me, or wants to have sex at any moment or anything like that. I appreciate all he does for me, however he knows that I have sexual and ABF needs that are above and beyond what he is wanting to give. Relationships are complicated hey!
(NOTE: This does not mean you harass me in private messages, please be respectful and polite, as I will be for you)My dream is I want to enjoy a true ANR, where I get to experience daily & multiple sessions of nursing. I would love to wake up and have my breasts suckled, when hubby gets home from work, or an outing, to be dragged away from the kids and have a quick suckle, at the park, at the beach, and of course in the bedroom where it would lead to an amazing and erotic form of sex.
But don’t get me wrong It doesn’t need to be based on a sexual thing. I love the calming connection, the other dimension of intimacy that ABF brings. A zen, calm, de-stress, yet erotic form of giving and receiving.
But I want to experience it all!
Selfish I know. But maybe, just maybe, I may get close to my dream.
I will be happy to experience all things leading to my very own ANR.I try to share some insights into my journey, pics and videos please be respectful and don’t share what I share with you, here or on other platforms.
If I have blocked you, there is a reason, and you would have been warned multiple times.
Most people have been great. I endeavour to respond to all my messages, but please be patient, there’s a lot of you sometimes. And I do have a job and life.Stay tuned for more updates when I have time.
Wishing you all a very milky day!xx Milky
@anrtom Thanks! and yes women are pretty amazing!
What an awesome post. How wonderful. Fingers crossed it progresses as you want.
The Angel that walks amongst us.
@milkyocean You have made great progress. Hopefully, that continues. Perhaps you can try to get him to suckle ina non sexual situation. An evening session on the couch.
I sincerely hope it all works out for you. It appears you are on the right track. Your husband is a very, very lucky man. I hope he takes advantage of what is being offered to him. What a way to start out an ABF relationship, at a time when you feel is right your baby can be weaned, however you can continue the beautiful relationship with your hubby!
@milkyocean class post. I will definitely be following this.
thank you for sharing your journey, and best of luck to you to get what you desire!
Thanks for share your experience and process! I will wait for more updates!
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