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I recently enjoyed a wonderful session with a lactating friend. She is a very warm, nurturing person and her milk is every bit as sweet as her personality. After three hours of wonderful cuddling and suckling, we thought I had drained her pretty thoroughly and decided to take a break and shoot a video. Her amazing breasts just kept on producing for my eager mouth! Videos of actual lactation and wet nursing seem to be rare on ABFH so I thought I’d share the video, in the event it is of general interest. It is in two parts, which can be seen in the Media section of my profile (link below.)
I’d like to hear your comments, either here or by PM. And because I do this platonically, I’m always hoping to form new friendships with like-minded ABF partners! I confess that I haven’t had any luck running personal ads thus far, so I thought I’d try a different approach.
I watched your videos and I can not wrap my mind around how people do this platonically. You all must have extreme self control.
Cant wait to have a look but I’m in the office so I’ll have to refrain myself till I’m home alone
Nice video. I can see how you could do it platonically but why would you want to when you can have so much more closeness and passion with someone you truly care about in every way. But I’m just a monogamous person in ever sense I guess.
I’m just curious if you have your partners get STI’s and STD tests prior to suckling breast milk ?
Both can be transmitted via breast milk.Tim , you seem like a sincere and respectful man. No offense intended.
For me it’s always platonically. Thinking of sex is never anything that I associate with abf. Everyone has different feelings and needs.
This site never ceases to confuse me. In response to this video, so far I have only been PM’d or friend requested by men, no women. Not exactly what I was hoping for! Second, several the women who have commented have largely expressed some degree of surprise, if not revolt. In particular there’s been some buzz over the fact that the relationship depicted in my video was platonic. I won’t elaborate about this publicly but feel free to PM. What I will say (and I have said it before on ABFH when the topic has come up) is that it is entirely possible for some men and women to enjoy ABF platonically. The video is proof of that. We both had a wonderful time and our pants remained on throughout.
That said, some of my ABF sessions have definitely become sexual also. Don’t assume that it is always kept platonic because there is no desire or sexual tension. There may be other considerations in play. Not everyone is single, unattached, and looking for a romantic, monogamous, LTR. People have various unfulfilled desires for various reasons. I, for one, pass no judgment. Mature consenting adults can define their own sexual boundaries and exercise enough self-control to stay within them. Why is that hard to understand or believe?
I have found women’s boundaries to vary wildly. One woman wouldn’t even remove her blouse, but rather just unbuttoned it a little. Another wanted sexual contact less than two minutes into our first session. The rest have fallen somewhere in between. I always respect my partner’s limits and try to fulfill her desires as much as I can while staying within my own limits. So far it has worked out beautifully. I’ve never had a bad ABF experience yet with anyone who didn’t ghost me.
I am not revolted at all. I will agree with you that not only this site, yet this lifestyle never ceases to confuse me.
You are incredibly patient answering the questions & comments you have received publicly.
I can only imagine those you have received privately.
I’m certain each & every woman you have had the pleasure of meeting & spending time with appreciates the fact that you treat them as an individual & respect their individual situations & boundaries.
While I have not met anyone from this site,yet. I have interacted with a cross section of men & many on other sites, as well as met some in person from other sites.
One thing that I find curious & at times frustrating is, yes, I am a woman on an ANR/ABF. However, I am more than my breasts. I’ve had some approach me in a less than flattering manner. I’m not going to be attracted to & interested in a man that does not connect with me on a higher level. I need intelligence, chemistry & respect to segue into a physical connection whether it’s platonic or sexual.
Thank you for raising the bar.@beginner3
I’m going to post this here also for reference, so people coming across your educational comments fully understand the actual risks. I appreciate that you’re trying to help folks, but the way you word this can be taken very broadly and cause unnecessary fear for some.I didn’t express revolt. I’m genuinely amazed that people can do this without having sexual contact. It’s not a judgment at all. I just can’t imagine nursing and not having a release afterwords. Everybody is different. I think its fascinating that we are all so unique.
I’ve been trying to experience something like this non sexual but unfortunately where I’m located nobody really responds back.
Thanks for sharing Tim.
I’ve only had non sexual sessions until I found my long term partner. It’s all about finding the right person who is respectful and can manage/follow boundaries. I also feel the dynamics/bond is different in a non sexual relationship or session.
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