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Hi everyone.
I have had experience of ABF before during my life; both times absolutely fantasic. One in a long term relationship, the other on a friends basis on a more irregular time scale, and no ties.
In both instances each of us were very happy and contented, with no hang ups or nervousness at all.. And absolute trust!
So my question is, these days, how come there are still very few females who will admit to wanting/needing an ABF or ANR?
Both of my previous experiences occurred between 7 and 18 years ago, and since those times, it seems as though it is even harder to meet genuine females with the same desire. It seems such a waste of a lifetime not having a “breast friend”, I really miss it all, the friendship, the shared desire, the trust and the intimate comfort.Anyone else have the same experience?
Many thanks
Dean 🙏Dean due to the apparent dearth of like minded females in your area perhaps you might introduce your current friend(s) to this enjoyable experience? Could be that many have never given it a thought.
In earlier days, there wasn’t as much fear of meeting via the internet. All of my experiences were from earlier days too.
That’s compensated for, to a degree, by the increasing visibility of ANR/ABF as a legitimate activity/relationship-style.
But the net result is that there still isn’t enough local people, almost no matter where you live, and there are still many more men than women into it too. So that sucks (and not in the good way), but as they say, “it only takes one.”
The ratio of hetero men to hetero women on this site, is 6-1
The odds are already stacked against you, and then you assume that all women know about ANR/ABF, that they have actually experienced it, and enjoyed it.
Maybe the problem is your location, profile, the competition, and or approach.
“So my question is, these days, how come there are still very few females who will admit to wanting/needing an ABF or ANR?
Anyone else have the same experience?”
Your comment assumes there are more females that want/needs ABF/ANR. This is a projection. An assumption many are out there but just not admitting to this interest in ABF/ANR. It’s possible but I doubt that. Sexuality and the various subjects are becoming better known. Women are more open to trying different things now. I am of the mind that most with this interest is for the bonding and intimacy of it along with it’s a sexual turn on. I think many find that in other sexual expressions. Everybody has their own turn ons and interests. To assume they have it but just not admitting to it is a huge assumption.
I have seen ABF/ANR topics mentioned/discusses sporadically in some kink friendly Facebook groups. General comments I have read include that while women are open to breast worship, many are turned off by the thought of ABF/ANR. Often reactions included was an incredulous thought of the time, effort and money it takes to lactate. Other reactions I saw was not wanting to be objectified. Another reason I saw is many see it as a Mommy type or dominating role and therefore a turnoff.
My personal experience of it is quite the opposite of yours. As written above. Hearing of some women’s view on it. For me personally, I was introduced by a boyfriend and was quite open to the idea.
Frankly, the way the question is written comes of as you have an expectation. I can’t find …so why won’t they admit to an interest? Displacing responsibility. It’s no one’s responsibility. It’s just what people’s desires are.
I wish you much luck in your search
“So my question is, these days, how come there are still very few females who will admit to wanting/needing an ABF or ANR?”
Adult nursing is a small niche kink, I hear more about other kinks/fetishes such as watersports and scat play on podcast than I do ANR/ABF. There are men and women who have no clue adult nursing exist or that they are drawn to it. I feel some men who say they are “breast men” don’t fully understand what adult nursing involves beyond just wanting to see breast.
The question surrounding not admitting to “want/need” adult nursing can also be due to the lack of knowledge from men and women. Through hearing a joke and kink shaming in a group, I came to learn about adult nursing. Viola, I learned this is something I’ve enjoyed for years but didn’t know what it was. People gravitate towards what is familiar although what is considered taboo can be equally pleasurable. We don’t consider adult nursing to be taboo and there are spaces for us to locate partners (duh), however not everyone knows where to turn to address their kink/fetish.
In dating, have those conversations about having your needs fulfilled. Some folks don’t know what they like or are concerned about what others “think” they are doing in their bedroom. Otherwise frequent kink sites and/or munches to meet those who might be are more open to engaging in adult nursing.
My answer to the question “these days, how come there are still very few females who will admit to wanting/needing an ABF or ANR?” Would have to parallel Bella’s comment.
I had no idea until August of 2022 such a physiological sensation existed, nor was I aware of the intricacy of the mammary system or its function and history. Not ALL women grow up dreaming of being attached to a breast pump every 4-6 hours from a “needing/wanting” standpoint. As CEOs, CFOs, and a variety of other executive professionals, it’s not at the top of they’re want/wish list. Making the search for a suckle partner rather moot if they’re not required.
Thanks for all your replies. Food for thought indeed.
I never assume anything, especially regarding ABF or relationships. Always been happy to let things pan out as they will.
I was just wondering how time may have changed attitudes in different parts of the globe.
Here in the UK, I would say that the net has made people more guarded rather than less so.
Hope you all have interesting times ahead.
Dean 🙏
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