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The Joy’s of posting in a public forum is that it’s open for the public to comment. Yet again you come across angry thus proving my point.
To JuicyBoobs: Okay but that’s you that’s not me, I have a PREFERENCE as to what I want and it is what it is but, please, don’t come for me when you don’t know me because I would never have done that to you, especially if I do not know who you are as a person and I don’t appreciate when people just want to assume things about me when they never took the time out to get to know me. And, yes, I LOVE ME SOME BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN AND OTHER WOMEN OF COLOR AS WELL!! Sorry not sorry that my preference triggered you. I love all types of women but I do prefer women of color and it seems to me that you have a issue with that part regarding my ads so once again, stay in your lane and do not come for me when you don’t know me, you are all the way in Ireland so you don’t know who I am, you’re just assuming things about me, girl, please stop with the unnecessary comments, thanks bye.
Your message didn’t trigger me. Your woe is me did. Poor you. Good luck here, your the one not having much luck.
Hell, BDF I thought that you were just a cranky person. Just how is someone supposed to take it when you rant in all caps ala one of your previous posts? I though JBs post was spot on without being mean.
Frogman: I can be soft and gentle but, I am also a serious people that knows what she wants, I am not the type of person that plays games, that’s all. My demeanor is a lot more that what you all want to percieve.
You do come across rather harsh at times. That’s my perception of your posts and not of you.
Well it sure does seem like that is you all’s perception of me rather than my posts. And, I am not going to explain myself to anyone, I shouldn’t have to. Besides you all wanting to assume things about someone maybe you all should have at least approached me a little bit better in this ad. That’s like if I came to you all’s ad and wrote a dumb, unnecessary comment about you all when I never took the time out to talk to you all. I have expectations just like you, JuicyBoobs and everyone else that’s on this website.
It is hard to find your way to what you want/need, there is no doubt about that being true. I’ve met some very wonderful people through this site, make, female, non binary and trans people of all walks of life from around the world. I’ve met and talked to people that were not kind, thoughtful or sincere. Those were very short lived relationships of course.
Don’t lose hope BD, you sound like a lovely creative woman who knows what she wants. She’s out there for you, on this site or elsewhere. Be patient, open minded, kind, sincere, have boundaries and trust your gut. You’ll find HER 🙂 best of luck to you.There are women who are on here to make themselves feel good from attention.
There are men on here who want to use a woman.
If it seems too good to be true, it probably isn’t. I ask for verification from people when I was seeking a relationship. It can help weed out the users and trust your gut. Good luck 🍀If someone says you’re perceived a certain way, accept it, because it’s their perception and you have no control how others think of you. You’re on this site seeking the approval of others, and if you seek to make a good impression, being entitled and dismissive is never going to win favour or influence people to perceive you in a positive light. Rather than blaming others or the site, look inwards for your answer to your problem. The other site users are merely reflecting whatever energy you put out there.
It’s ok to not be everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s not ok to get all butthurt and offended by rejection. It’s life, deal with it.
Nips4fun: Okay, that’s a good point. And, one thing though, I’m not hurt by any type of rejection so idk where that came from but, I don’t appreciate people just assuming the type of person that I am based off of posts I’ve made on here recently, or in the past. And, I’m not putting out any type of bad energy, I am just serious about what it is that I want and people seem to be ( I’m going to use the word you’ve just used) BUTTHURT by me wanting EXACTLY WHAT I WANT lol but, once again, I get what you mean. I just feel like I shouldn’t have to explain myself to anyone so, if people feel like I am intimidating, or mean just because I express myself in a certain manner well, then, that’s on them, I just don’t know what else to say hey, you can’t please everyone you know?
I didn’t know we had free therapy on here 🙂 I probably should have used it myself.
I read BD’s post as just venting, just As I have before, many times and countless others on here have as well. I didn’t read anything offensive or mean.
It’s hard to find the right person or even just a person for abf. We all go through it, especially those of us who are truly sincere.
It’s just me, but a little bit of encouragement goes a long way sometimes.You just need a cuddle. We all do from time to time.
Deborah: Thank you Deborah and I wish you the best of luck on your search. It just seems like JuicyBoobs was bothered by my posts of me stating that I want someone non-white that’s just what it seems like to me so, she had the audacity to come to my post to assume all of these things about me like WTH? Lady, you’re all the way in Ireland for Christ sakes! It’s like, you don’t even know me, and haven’t even exchanged words with me to make assumptions about me, you have some nerve!! And to everyone on here, I’ll work on not using all caps, I use all caps sometimes to highlight a certain thing that I talk about and to just bring to people’s attention but it’s not because I am angry. Lol I’ll work on that! But once again, thanks Deborah.
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