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I’m starting to think that these dating sites, or whatever type of mingling site is pretty much just a waste of time. It just seems so pointless in trying to waste my time trying to find something that I want when that something is/feels impossible to find it’s like, what’s the da* point?? I have plenty to say but, I’ll stop here with this rant.
I feel that so often, website communities are flooded with non genuine members with far too much time on their hands and not much genuine intent.
Or it could be just that I am totally unlikeable!Let’s hope you and I both strike gold soon!
All the best of luck to you!
I am somewhat thankful I am naturally introverted because I feel you, I just don’t feel like I’m losing out by all this dead end convo stuff. Sometimes I hit it off with someone and it ends because of something that might seem minor. But on another hand, if the base attraction doesn’t exist, it won’t carry far.
I hope everyone finds the right one but as of late it has gotten pretty hecking challenging.
This is a pretty standard experience of anyone seeking women.
I have been seeking for a few years with no success.
For me, I am not looking for a long term relationship. Long term casual is perfect for me but everyone in my area wants a long term thing. 🤷
I find this site to be full of time wasters and attention seekers. If spoken to lots of women and noticed it doesn’t go anywhere once they’ve had there fill of attention. Also I’ve caught out a lot of liars and fakes. Would be nice to meet a genuine and honest woman who isn’t into playing games
Yes (Dark Knight), it seems to be commonplace. Often it is the attention online that is only required, but then it could be that those particular ladies don’t really appreciate what ABF actually means, so we are better off staying well away!
Without doing any research, I assume men out number women here.
I check in most days, see if I have a message, maybe participate in a discussion and that’s it.
If a women is interested I assume she’ll message me and I will be flattered.
Some are time wasters for me; perhaps it’s just the attention online they need.
This isn’t a fetish or kink for me; just feels natural; wether it’s part of an otherwise platonic relationship or something more intimate.Same goes for the men too Dark Knight. Too many fakes game players. Excuse makers etc. They arent here for the right reasons at all. It does seem like a big waste of time.
I can’t speak for all women but I’ve been fortunate on here. Yes there are guys that are fakes or guys that just want to talk and get off but I have met some very nice men in person and there are some others I will meet soon. Don’t give up. Stay positive. Maybe change your approach a little. Happy suckling!
I have read the OPs other posts and tbh I wouldnt ever message her in private, not that she wants me to anyway. I found in her previous posts she comes across as someone with anger issues, she dictates the kind of messages you can and cant send her so much so that you almost need to take notes. She comes across as so unapproachable, that I imagine that’s why she hasnt found what shes looking for. Maybe it’s a frustration from receiving loads of stupid or unwanted messages or maybe its immaturity on her part but I think if she lightened up and didnt come across so angry in her previous messages she might have had better luck.
This message is for JuicyBoobs: Hi, so, obviously you don’t know who I am so please do not assume anything about me just because you have came across plenty of posts of mine on here. You have some nerve being disrespectful and leaving unnecessary, rude comments under a ad that I’ve written. And if you feel the need to say something directly to me then feel free to express that to me directly in my mailbox. People always want to hide behind their phones, or computer screens and talk mess but they probably would never have the nerve to say what it is that they need to say directly to your face if you were to see them in person. I’ve never spoke to you before so you do not know anything about me so with all due respect stay in your lane, you’re all the way in Ireland and I da* sure as hell do not have time to be going back and forth with anyone on a website who I will never meet anyways….. it’s pointless…. And I’m immature? Really? Says the lady who has unnecessary beef with someone who they don’t even know and just wans to assume things about someone else based on a post they’ve written? You should be the last person who wants to assume that someone is being immature. What you did was just so unnecessary, it really was. I’m just a girl that knows what she wants and won’t just settle for anything so, maybe that’s something you don’t like when you came across whatever post of mine that you came across. And, you’re right, I wouldn’t want you to message me because you wouldn’t be something that I would be looking for anyways so, once again, please fall back, stay where you are, don’t come for me when you don’t even know me. I don’t know what’s your issue with my posts but I guarantee you that isn’t my problem. You wouldn’t want for someone to tell you how you should come off in your posts so please DO NOT come to my ad telling me how I should portray myself in my posts.
I never mentioned men. You also said you opened your filters to others presumably because you werent getting responses to your post looking for only black women or women of colour. It was almost like an after thought well I cant get what I want so I’ll have to make do. No thanks, I certainly dont make do. Ps I’m not into men or women really, I just want to be suckled but I love chatting to nice people no matter their sex, colour or sexual orientation. But that’s just me.
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