Introducing ANR

[Anonymous]

Mainly for the lady’s. How would you introduce ANR to someone who isn’t into any type of kink or fetish, but enjoys having her breasts suckled.
I have been seeing a woman and want to introduce her to ANR but don’t want to scare her off. Given her reaction to me suckling her I think ANR would bring us closer together. I have been in an ANR before but the last person was out there where as this woman is a little more reserved.

[Anonymous]

Great question, Brian.
It’s good that you’ve noticed a positive reaction from her when your mouth engages her breasts. That will benefit greatly in your favor. If I were in your girlfriend’s shoes and a bit on the conservative side, I would probably want to be introduced to it after I’m comfortable in the relationship. For example, it wouldn’t be as awkward for me if we were both sharing something new that both partners wanted to try in the bedroom. By doing this, your mind is already prepared to being open to your partner’s idea(s) and at this point, you’re probably expecting something a little out of the ordinary anyway. Also, both partners get to share with one another something they haven’t shared before making them vulnerable and therefore making it easier to empathize and understand. I would really like to stress the the point of being comfortable in the relationship before doing this otherwise, both partners may be afraid to fully express what it is they truly want and both partners may not be as inclined to be as open minded. It can be really tricky to get your partner to open up and share a secret fetish/fantasy they’ve always wanted to explore. I would make sure to have your partner go first.

Good luck. I hope it turns out well for you.

[Effervescent1]

I might also suggest not discussing it while being intimate. Talk about it outside of the bedroom being very frank and sincere about it, but no pressure.

[Anonymous]

So if she enjoys what you’re doing as is why rock the boat, but if you’re wanting her to lactate that can be a totally different thing which she may not have a interest in, but you won’t know until you ask so just ask, if you scare her off then it just wasn’t for you to have with her.

[Anonymous]

You could “by chance” see a documentary on ANR listed when you’re both sat in front of the box and suggest you both watch the first 10 mins to see what the hell it is?! 😉

[Anonymous]

Thanks everyone, you’ve given me a few things to consider.

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