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Hello!
I’m 42, living (for the first time in my life) in a rather “small city” closer to the USA east coast, and I’ve had limited luck — basically no luck — finding an ANR/ABF partner nearby. I’ve lived here for a bit over four years and have tried quite a bit. There’s just not a lot of people nearby into it.
My ex and I moved here for pandemic reasons (closer to her family). We separated about two years ago. 100% amicable. We co-parent together extremely well.
Prior to living here, I only lived in big cities. Meanwhile, I travel for work quite a lot (to those same cities and to other places). And I always see more ANR/ABF-minded women in those places (mostly via this site!). I’ve had 3-4 experiences with it during my travels over the last few years, all quite wonderful.
But I’m in pursuit of something even better than that. Instead of opportunistically searching for an ABF partner in a city I might be visiting, why not just post on here and see if there are any women who similarly can’t find a great experience and are open to someone who would be willing to travel there if we vibe right, if the attraction is there, etc.?
I’m very fortunate to have the flexibility (given my job) and the finances to be able to do this. I want to take advantage of that privilege, not just for me, but hopefully for a a wonderful experience as well. Obviously, something ongoing over time would be ideal. But, one step at a time.
First step would be us talking and seeing if there’s chemistry, mutual interests, and generally just a good vibe. Then we could take it from there are we’re both comfortable to do so.
More about me: tall (6’1″), fit (170lbs and well toned, reasonably athletic), intelligent, well-traveled, good conversationalist, empathetic. I’m usually well at ease in one-on-one conversations. I love travel, good food, drinks, music. I love to read, I love cinema. I’m known to be very giving in the bedroom, in intimate settings.
If you’re out there and if this resonates, I really hope you reach out!
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