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“Have you any experience suckling?”
“How long have you known about ANR?”
“Why do you like ANR?”
“How many past partners have you had?”
etc etc…Are these questions really necessary? I feel like a lot of the conversations I’ve had are really impersonal and someone’s just gauging how suitable I am as a suckler…
Ladies are trying to learn if you are a safe partner, will your mouth hurt them or not, and if you understand the energy that happens during ANR relationships/activities.
If these questions are fired off as if from a cannon I can see how they could be off putting or aggressive? In terms of delivery. But the questions themselves are necessary especially if a lady is talking with a man who has zero info on his profile.
Men come here thinking a breast is gonna fall into their mouth simply because they showed up. Not necessarily true. Even the most casual encounter requires vetting and questions around safety and comfort.Thanks for the explanation, TC!
Harris, I feel your pain, in some cases dating questions are actually harder since unlike job interviews where position/role/responsibilities is clearly stated in a job posting, you may not get a full sense of what the other person is looking for.But TC brings up a good point in terms of why the ladies want to know, so if you are always getting asked the same questions, maybe putting them up on your profile will answer them for the ladies in advance.
I get where Harris is coming from. I think it also has to do with the lopsided gender population/preferences on the site as well. There are a lot of guys on here and women have the pick of the litter in some places, not to mention some of them are only looking for other women too. It’s a vetting process, and you have to compete a little bit. The question for us guys is, how much are you willing to put into this? Fill out that profile with lots of details – it cuts down on headaches.
Alex is right. The more details about yourself and your breast experience or how you view ANR is extremely helpful.
These questions are typically asked because women want to know if this is something you’re genuinely into or if you’re just another guy using it as a means to get laid. It can also tell if this is something a person is really into or if it’s something they want to cross off their fuck it list. I think if you really tried to view this from a woman’s perspective you would understand why these and so many other questions are asked. How would you feel if you ended up with a cracked and bleeding nipple because someone didn’t know what in the hell they were doing?
As a woman, I get asked the last three questions from men as well, and if I’ve got experience being suckled. It does get a little monotonous answering these questions over and over but I think it’s a necessary evil.
I don’t think those are unreasonable questions at all.
To be fair, as a woman, I get asked those same questions as well. Then I get “hey, can I suck your tits?” in the first email as well, so……yeah. I’m vetting for who’s an idiot and who isn’t.
I am glad for this community where issues and questions like these can be discussed openly and receive honest/constructive feedback. having the information in the profile as suggested by both Alex and TC will help both men and women from having to ask/answer the same questions over and over again, since it will already be answered in the profile for both sides. if it makes the text/written profile too long, maybe we can have a separate section for personalized FAQS or another format to present that information for both sides.
Yeah i think it’s not just the questions but how you answer them, like someone else said in trying to find out if we have a connection and I’m trying to find someone thats looking for the same thing as me. The obvious first topic of conversion will be about anr
Guys do the same to women. Its just not one sided .
Emma, I agree about using the answers to try to find out if there is a connection. But where I am headed is if we have the answers to those types of questions already in the profile, almost like a abf/anr resume, if that would help to reduce the need of the first topic of conversation being centered on just asking/answering questions about anr. so that you would only further the connection in other areas with someone that already matches the level of experience or anr you are both looking for.
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind being asked these questions.
It’s the nature which they’re asked to me.
In my initial messages I try to say a little about myself and attach a picture too.
It’s the first response with all these questions I dislike, especially if they’re fired at me without them giving their side of the story too.
Like I said, it feels less like a conversation and more like an interview
As others have said, having the answers to those questions on your profile can help, however it does still require the other person to have actually read it. When push comes to shove, a lot of people are simply going to look at your age and if there is a picture showing on your profile when it comes to messaging. Even location is on occasion ignored by people from what some women I’ve messaged/met have told me. So no fool proof way to avoid those questions really.
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