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So finding the right partner takes a lot of patience, especially at my age where older women are interested in long-term relationships and people with experience (which are completely valid concerns).
I understand part of speeding up the process is being as genuine as you can be. Kind, formal, and respectful. Though sometimes I feel like I try *too* hard whenever I reach out to others. I try to be as formal as possible. I introduce myself, explain my motives, and then ask if they’d be interested and talk about my availability
…now that I’m typing that last part out, I can kinda see how that could be seen as coming on too hard. Actually, making introductions like these makes me feel like a bot at times. I just don’t know how else to go about it. It’s not like I can waltz in and say “lemme suck on your tits”. I understand women have a lot of messages to weed out since there’s a lot more men messaging women on this site than vice versa. But I’m not a fan of small talk either, like “hello” or “how are you” or “we should get to know each other”. That feels like wasting time to me. Essentially, I struggle to find an in-between.
I don’t go around messaging every woman in my area. I try to sparingly message those who are looking for the same thing I am. I know I’m in zero position to be in a long-term relationship with anyone on this site given my rather young age, so I’ve always felt like being a regular suckler to help people induce or keep their supply up would be more my speed. Goes without saying, but I have complete disregard for the fetishization of ABF. The intimacy is one of the best feelings in the world.
One last thing: I know having an actual photo helps a ton, but last time I had a profile picture that was even remotely personalized, I had men creeping on me. MEN. So naturally I’d be hesitant to display a photo after that.
So, if anyone has any tips for me on how I can be more polite and not come on strong when reaching out to women, that’d be lovely. Cheers 💜Beimh yourself if a major plus. Being honest about your relationship situation is a major thing also. I hate it when I’m deceived. I chose who to share my personal story with then hope it goes somewhere from there. I don’t have much advice, being new myself. These are just a few things I’ve noticed. Hope you get lots of great advice!
Everyone has made good points i would also like to add do not act like you know more about what’s going on with her body then she does. The last thing a woman needs “mansplained” to her is the process of lactation. Lol
Sorry my comment is for the MEN that are reading these posts too.
I suggest, a nice little paragraph introducing yourself to who you are what your looking for and how they caught your eye and etc , throw a little compliment in there if you can see what she looks like, but yes most importantly be yourself and hope for the best, I wish you well.
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