That’s what I’m currently in the middle of. Although there are other issues besides, and my current partner and I just aren’t getting along any more, I’ve decided that being in a committed AN relationship is too important to me. That it’s something that I am determined to find in future.
I know there are a lot of people that pursue ABF as a kink and each to their own, etc) but for me I feel a strong need to be in a committed, long-term ANR. It feels fundamental.
I wonder if other people out there feel similarly and perhaps have been in similar positions?