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Yup because that’s totally what I Said. Wow. If that’s what you took from that then that’s your problem.
Don’t become what they’re saying you are. Plenty of women actually like men. Save your energy for people who are not determined to think the worst of you. You define what you’re about, nobody else has that power unless you give it to them.
To be transparent, my experience here has been 50/50. Most of the guys are decent people. The other 50 are not, get blocked and I move on.
I’m here to look for a compassionate, supportive, caring and involved partner first who also loves ANR. That means, I’m going to put more value and energy into those who display these characteristics. If the guy immediately goes into ANR and sexy fun talk, or even a day or week later, chances are, I’m blocking them. I take charge of who I let have access to me.
I also recognize that not every woman has this ability due to upbringing, beliefs whatever. Many women are raised to be polite and kind even when it is a severe detriment to them.
So when I see guys complain about this whole “this is uncomfortable”, “women need to quit complaining” “not all men”, I’m going to jump in and defend those women who feel they can’t speak. Being a woman who was raised to simply “take it and be happy you are getting attention”, I’m absolutely going to voice out for those who can’t.
So, yeah, it sucks. It brings the mood down, but if it prevents one woman from being put into an uncomfortable position or provides them with the strength they need to stand up, then I’ll take it every time. I don’t care how the other party feels. It’s that simple.
So, I’m not sorry if men are feeling uncomfortable. I’m here to support the women. Men can be uncomfortable. It’s the situation they’ve created.
Men up in here tone policing women, wanting to silence them on their feelings and experiences? Talking over the voices of women? Telling women how they should feel and behave? Ignoring what is actually the problem identified by women? Color me shocked!! 🙄
It’s always the “not all men” men who end up showing everybody how they are part of the group they don’t claim to be in, yet still just ignoring the ways in which they’re part of the problem. Y’all are such energy vampires. Instead of doing the work on yourself, you want women to do work so you don’t have to, and so you don’t feel ~uncomfortable~.Shoutout to the strong, empowered, intelligent women who plant their feet firmly every day to take up deserved space in this world, who speak their truths, and support and empower other women. And to the men in their 20s here who’ve kept my inbox busy and have turned out to be more respectful, intellectually engaging, and emotionally mature than any single man above the age of 45 that has appeared in my inbox since I’ve been on this site.
Y’all really are the saving grace of this place ✌️Damn, breastfeeding is not an adversarial relationship.
Are there bad apples on both sides? Hell yes!
Men can be weinies. Men are dicks. Men are shit heads!
Not all, just some.Women can be whiners. Women are bitches. Women are twats!
Not all, just some.There it’s said. Now please let’s go on with the regularly scheduled program of being nice and caring to each other.
Remember the block button is active. Use it as needed.
Love y’all.🤗😘🥰💕🤗🤗🤗I’d say let’s turn it into a fun little drinking game where we take a drink every time a “nice guy” shows his true colors on here, but we would be dead before sundown from alcohol poisoning.
Smh. 🤦♀️Just sounds like you all have had bad experiences and are spiteful at this point , like damn if a guy gives you problems block em or tell Michael and move on.
Ah yes. If a man can’t figure out how to be a decent human being to other human beings, it’s always the woman’s fault for not tolerating it and she needs to take the actions instead of men making other men who make them look bad take some kind of action.
So if the owner of the site was a women you wouldn’t have a problem reporting them then? And yes you do need to take the action. I can’t hit the block or reporting button for you. I’m not on here to control others actions. I’m here to control my own. It’s the internet people hide behind a vale,Or aren’t genuine. Stop grouping all men together. It’s a crap argument.
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