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@foxgoddess That’s it… exactly that.
@pawsda23 – I totally support that too. It just isn’t for me.
I think the main part, which had always been the issue, is read profiles before sending messages. Many will say how they want to be approached and what they are up for. If the profile doesn’t, well then, messaging discretion is best. But to just do an area search and message every single owner of breasts a message is pretty crappy.
Really when it comes down to it, when someone out of the blue asks said question just answer no. They aren’t the person you’re looking for.
Block them if they don’t like that answer.
Truth be told I haven’t had that issue. No request for the drive by use of these lips.😘
However, there have been plenty of requests to be a “Daddy”. That’s as similar to your issue as I can get.
In closing this isn’t just an ANR site.
I suppose meeting for a ……
Coffee is out of the question?😜😜🤗I echo Grogman’s response. I’ve enjoyed ‘drive by’ meets with a couple of members who were friends before we met and after. Nothing more than two consenting adults with very busy lives sharing a relaxed gentle moment in time; both of us would fail to see a negative with this. I actually think these moments are quite special, life’s too short.
Of course this isn’t for everyone but that’s ok, we have liberty as adults.
@Grogman 😘…if yur ever drivin through Missouri please drop in and loan me yur lips and i’ll Call ya anything you want 😘.
And yes indeed, it isn’t just an ANR and ABF site, it’s a dating and relationship site. Given body parts are involved, numerous individuals simply have a myriad of different definitions of what that is and what it entails. A lot of guys and gals just want to be fluffed before a date with someone else or maybe have a gang bang they’re going to and want to get worked up for that. If you’re just a pillow princess and want an engagement ring or happily ever after somewhere, then say that or No and block the person.
If a woman doesn’t want to be approached, as Grogman put it, just say No. Be flattered you were considered, press on and enjoy your day. If No doesn’t work, block the individual. If that’s the only type of person you’re getting interest from change your message preferences to No one and hope for the best.
Expecting anyone and everyone to take the time to read a profile doesn’t work with a certain group of people, they’re not interested in what you want, only in what they want. By limiting their wants you’re kind of doing the exact same thing they’re doing to you.
I do believe I’ve heard there are a few women here that have several thousand people blocked in their record.
“Drive by Sucklers”, falls into the realm of ABF to me. Both parties agree to meet and have their needs/desires met. Also depending on the area both may have fallen flat on finding someone in their area. The traveler has opened the possibility for both to experience ABF or the possibility of more meets.
I’ve spoken to many travelers but we could never sync up. I don’t look at it as being a commodity but rather a mutual decision. That’s one less use of the pump for me, it’s relaxing to both parties, and both receive the gratification of human touch. It may not be something for everyone but one ABF session can still have its positives for both parties.
Hey btrfly I totally agree with you and I am not looking for a suck and go kind of thing either and with that being said I have chatted with several women who seemed sincere at the time only to delete their profile and disappear. I have resided to the fact that I will NEVER find what I am looking for with a man or woman and I don’t want to die old and alone like my dad did but I have given up hope and I cry …. A lot but thanks for your responses and kind words you have sent me in the past.😞
Thank you all for your responses! Love getting everyones feedback. Especially, supporting one another in this small community. 🙂
@marathonsuckleme – Oof but same.
I am looking for a long term relationship where the partners are equal as well as an ANR. These two things don’t seem to be had in the same relam. I don’t want to die old and alone either, but as you say, the options just don’t seem to be here, particularly in my age range or location. It’s really disheartening and hope shattering, so I feel you. It’s super easy to find a no committment situation, but I need that commitment or it’s just not gonna work with me unless you are someone who has been a friend to me for a long while. 🤷♀️
I don’t know how to change this or have words of encouragement other than do what makes your heart feel right. ❤️
ABF – with a friend occasionally would be great, but I know I would want more than that too.
ABR – in a relationship is what I’m wanting though.👆🏾And I really freaking hate when guys ignore my profile because it relates to both instances above. 👆🏾
I’ve revised my profile like 10x already for clarity trying not to be rude to anyone. I’m not desperate, and most guys think they are exceptions to the rule. I’m polite and pleasant to chat with until the point when I have to be rude. And if it gets there, YOU have gone too far.
*would be super helpful though, for the guys who don’t have a profile pic to let me know they are just messaging me to say hi as friends right off the bat so I’m not guessing.*
I agree with Bella, adult breastfeeding is a niche and etiquette surrounding it is not established, like it is in general dating.
I tend to have the opposite problem in general to the OP, in that I get a lot of guys wanting commitment from me, to lactate for them when I’m currently dry, to be exclusive with them when I’ve clearly stated in my profile that I’m a free spirit and not necessarily seeking a conventional relationship.
Obviously, it’s a good idea to have a chat and get to know someone a bit before engaging in any intimate act for safety reasons and to ensure you don’t both have a wasted trip to meet someone you don’t click with. But for me, trying to establish a relationship and make definite plans with someone you’ve never met is unthinkable.
100 % not for me.. and what is more annoying is when guys try to talk me out of it.. as if they know what’s better for me than I do.. I have tried to be straightforward and polite in my profile and still I get requests as if my needs and desires are meaningless.. losing my patience.. and I’m in amazement when some guys wonder why they get no response or blocked.. Vent over..
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