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Strange title, I know. But hear me out.
I discovered ANR over a decade ago while still quite young. I joined various communities and everyone was willing to chat to each other about this niche.
Not only that, but it felt far easier to meet. I used to use Craigslist (RIP) and ABF Singles (a shell of its formal self now unfortunately) and despite my age I managed to meet women and also had an ANR as a result.
Now ANR and lactation has gained some popularity every other woman I talk to isn’t really into ANR. They just want to sell something to me: Money in exchange for suckling, milk, pictures and videos, etc. When I respond with a no, I’m called cheap or entitled! I just feel like bashing my head against the wall at how annoying this is.
That feeling of a small community coming together to discuss a misunderstood niche has gone. Now it feels like they’re exploited by people who are not even into ANR seeking money.
Rant over.
No, but I do agree with you about it becoming popular “to sell”, you only have to check out chaturbate to see a whole section of young women lactating if you give them tokens or something, I’m not fully up on how it works tbh. I cant help but think that channel 4 documentary has encouraged this. I dont think that’s an issue here and if someone here is looking for money from you I’m sure Michael would like to know about it.
Actually, I’ve noticed a recent uptick of more women joining, then never before.
Whatever is going on with ANR/ABF is the tenor of the times we live in. Media blitz is every where. More people see ANR/ABF as a chance to make money from it. The sites that cater to it are in it to make money. The more people that delve into it, the more diluted the access to the sites become. I just plod along patiently going with the flow. Patience and perseverance is the key to finding a suitable partner.
I kinda understand the sentiment behind this topic. But I think it should be better expressed as “the golden age of ANR websites”. I’ve received messages over the last couple of years saying they preferred the “ANR scene” when it was, basically, less popular. Less visible. More of a niche.
So it’s a double-edged sword really. With more popularity comes more opportunities for everyone to find a partner. And, unfortunately, more non-serious people, more people looking to make money, and so on.
My own favourite message I’ve received?
“I hate your site. You’ve turned ANR into a circus”
Really.This site certainly hasnt turned anr into a circus but I do think the channel 4 documentary did. Of all the couples they could have picked they went with the weirdest couple looking to break into the porn industry, the mum who was making a fortune and even the couple (wolf??) Who also were in the porn industry, they made it look cheap and didnt focus on the bonding and nurturing side of anr. They showed it at its worst. But I guess channel 4 were going for the shock factor element.
I must have been waay out of the loop. I never knew ANR existed until two years ago. Upon seeing all the new female profiles here basically saying “I’m new to this and want to find out more”, I hardly think its time to say that “this thing of ours” has jumped the shark. While some of the old doors have closed, others have opened, like this one.
Most of the ones (websites) ten years ago were sort of bad, I was on one where it was free to join but you had to give a donation to be able to contact anyone.
I did meet two people within the first month on that site, but the site was very localized, that site just withered and died off. and it was a little odd to use. ABF singles was free back then and one of the biggest sites at the time since there was so very few to choose from, it was sold to the present owner who started charging and changed how it operated.
Most ANR/ABF sites back then didn’t last very long, they would pop up and disappear or were just abandoned or just stop functioning. most of the sites from back then are long gone.
Using Craigslist or Backpage was mostly escorts and pay to play, you could get what you wanted if you were willing to pay for it, and their personals weren’t much better than the escort ads.
I think you have way more opportunity today, but since it’s now more mainstream it’s bring in a lot more people who aren’t really serious about ANR/ABF or see it as a way to get pictures or sex by faking they are into ANR/ABF so it’s much more work these days vetting people.
I think most of the newer people are more into the ABF aspects you see a lot of people wanting to do these meetups that are hours away or can only see the person once a week, they aren’t interested in the ANR aspect at all (way too much effort and time involved), so basically it just a hookup for the vast majority of them.
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