Does abf attract people who have suffered abuse and trauma

[JUICYBOOBIES 🇮🇪☘️]

Thank you everyone for responding. Leaves food for thought. I’m currently reading the book The Body Keeps the Score which is all about trauma and abuse and it’s very interesting.

My problem isn’t so much the information been disclosed to me as if I knew someone a while it would be fine but it’s that it’s almost immediately disclosed and in one case was the first message I received before any introductions.

Ps Natural your very hot yourself.

[MatureAZmaleLatch]

That is an interesting observation, Ms. Juicy.. from Ireland. I applaud you sharing and voicing both boundaries and concern. I have noticed among several of my friends that both participants were damaged, and found each other to make a whole. This may be along the realm of coping together. As for me, my instinct is a bit different. I don’t have an experience that I would identify as a trauma, childhood or adult, despite being in combat, or witnessing death or dying, or horror professionally. For me, I find that women who enjoy this deep relationship are generally supportive, mother-earthly rooted human beings. They bring caring instincts and excellent boundary controls. Generally, they are sincere, responsible to a fault, and have as much or more to give than any in their cohort age group. In short, I have found women who migrate here, do so because they fit, and are willing to engage in an ANR, or ABF, or whatever definition of shared breast involvement you choose, and are some of the most honest and emotionally stable women I have ever met. They are not without flaws, of course, no one is… but, they are so much more emotionally available and bring me peace. And men will tell you, that after a day of slaying dragons 🐉, coming home to emotional peace is the best breast thing in the world. And that’s all about that.

[JUICYBOOBIES 🇮🇪☘️]

@matureazmalelatch after a day of slaying dragons coming home to emotional peace sums up everything in once sentence for me. Thank you. Lovely words.

[Tom]

I did not suffer abuse as a child or felt abandoned. I come from a two parent household. For me this desire came with the birth of my first child over 25 years ago and persisted even before I knew this was called ANR. I also deployed to Iraq, suffered burnout there but no diagnosed PTSD. I have been evaluated twice for mental health and only diagnosed with mild depression which is not uncommon for those with high IQ like myself.

I have thought about this a lot and ANR for me is primarily love and acceptance as my love languages are quality time and physical touch. It also reduces stress and is comforting. And I have a bit of a sweet tooth as well.

I wonder though if the law of attraction is playing out. I have noticed as well that I seem to attract ladies with mental health problems from singles events, dating apps, and so forth. So I am working on myself, profiles, and so forth so my vibe/being attracts the person I am looking for.

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