Could you be in a relationship without nursing?

[Galacta]

I dont have any milk yet. I am thoroughly enjoying trying to lactate. My husband has no experience with breastmilk at all so he is doing this to oblige me. I dont know how he will react when my milk comes in. Maybe he won’t like it at all? I hope that doesn’t happen, but if it does and he doesn’t want to do this with me anymore, I will still adore him. I will be bummed for sure, but I love my husband with all my heart and nothing could ever change that.

[Anonymous]

I hope for both of you that he likes breast milk. I have only heard of a few people that didn’t.

[Galacta]

Thanks, Elizabeth. I hope he does too! I’m kind of nervous about it, to be honest.

[Anonymous]

I was fortunate enough to enjoy 20 yrs (12+ of which was a full ANR) with my late wife. It was a truly beautiful element of our relationship and undoubtedly made us much much closer and more bonded, until cancer sadly took her at only age 40.

I’ve tried vanilla dating and it just doesn’t work for me, after the experience I had with my late wife. I crave and yearn for that closeness and connection again but have been unable to find it via conventional vanilla dating. I tried one committed relationship of 5 yrs with a woman who said she’d try ANR but time never allowed for it and in the end she and I split because I just felt unfulfilled without that special bond between us.

So been single a while and continuing the search for a special lady to share the beauty of ANR with again in a committed long term relationship.

My late wife and I stumbled onto ANR completely by chance. She was breastfeeding our first born and he was unwell and not feeding properly for a few days. She was in agony with engorgement and no amount of pumping or hand expression gave her the relief she needed. She went to the midwife who suggested to her that she ask me to help her relieve the pressure. So one evening that is exactly what we did and three hours later after suckling her completely, we were both completely hooked on it, and felt wonderful together. So started the most wonderful journey of 3 to 4 suckling sessions a day, every day, and our sex life together became so passionate and strong that neither of us ever looked elsewhere for excitement or distraction.

I totally agree that there would be way less divorces, postnatal depression, and relationship dysfunction, if more couples opened their minds to the wonder of ANR / ABF and actually gave it a proper try. For me now, I could never be in a vanilla only relationship without ANR / ABF, after having experienced its total beauty and nurturing, loving connection.

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