Catfished

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    Rocco
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    • Looking for: Female
    • Italy

    I read the one person saying that if s someone doesn’t wanna have a call then that’s a sign. Often yes, but not always. I have met legit women off other sites in the past that were legit shy of a call but did actually meet. One fantastic thing about this site is the voice note function. Still life has no guarantees. As another lady pointed out, some people are just fishing to see what they can pull in, but don’t want to keep anything. Sad that they don’t have the integrity to say right off the bat, they only want chat. But then again, many folks don’t even know what the F they want, so how would they be expected to clearly articulate their true desires?

    #538945
    Jay
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Oh, I’ve definitely been ghosted before but this just feels different. Maybe because it’s that ANR is so intimate, maybe it’s because this is a relatively smaller community, perhaps it’s a combination of the two!

    I’ve heard from Michael admin and what he’s told me has lifted my scepticism and I’ve just decided that this may have just been someone who is a bit strange!

    Going forward, voice notes all the way!

    #538971
    sam
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Rocco, I said the ‘presumption’ should always be that they’re not genuine about meeting. Which I stand by. I think that’s a reasonable position to take.

    Naturally you could still take the risk of meeting and they may turn out to be genuine. Equally, just because they’ve agreed to a phonecall doesn’t mean they’ll ultimately show for a meet. Neither the fact of, nor absence of a phone call is proof conclusive of that outcome. But the presumption I described remains sound.

    I’d just further add; on a personal note I wouldn’t wish to meet anyone that wasn’t prepared to have a phonecall first. That is to say, I wouldn’t willingly put myself in a potential ABF scenario with someone who had showed zero interpersonal maturity prior to a meet. If they were “legit too shy” to speak on a telephone then you could only have yourself to blame if they then freaked out while in a state of semi undress with you. For whatever reason at all. I don’t have that sort of reckless disregard for my personal safety and am not so needy for ABF that it clouds my reasonable judgment.

    We’re supposed to be adults. Thats what the ‘A’ stands for.

    #539214
    Woody
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    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    I wonder how many of us have checked out your friends list, incase we may have the same lady in our lists ? 😁

    #539218
    Jay
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    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    Hi Woody, the person in my friends list is not the person I am basing this thread on.

    #539450
    DARK OCEAN
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    • Looking for: Female
    • United Kingdom

    To be honest I find a lot of the British women are time wasters or fakes. It a shame there’s not a way to weed out the fakes and attention seekers

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