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Gentlemen, please be careful on how you are suckling. I just ended up with two hugggeee bruises and open wound on both my breasts. The guy also could care less what he did. Now no one will want to come suckle because they look like they got in a fight and they were TKO. I’d share pics but this won’t allow me. Please be considerate. And the damage wasn’t even around the nipple…
Sorry you had to go through that. I’ll bet it was not with a regular partner. In any case, I would not hesitate to let him know, in REAL time “not so hard” or words to that effect. If he doesn’t heed, stop the session and let him know face to face before proceeding or giving him the heave ho. Sometimes we get caught up in the moment. Communication can be so important to draw the line between ecstasy and pain.
I had that happen last year as well. Occurs when partner hasn’t taken the time or effort to learn how to properly latch. His reaction was similar to your partner, no responsibility or concern. Sorry you’re experiencing that.
My first experience was like that. He didn’t know how to properly latch and he left me with bite marks I had to bandage up for a week. Painful and not fun (guys: Don’t use your teeth).
I also experienced something similar. I think in his case, it was more about marking territory or something. Either way: it hurts and leaves them less pretty.
Ugh! That’s terrible! 🙁 So sorry to hear
Many thing suckling is same as sucking or breast foreplay, and biting is erotic! Wrong!
When you nurse, you suckle. Suckling never hurts or go to that extreme. If done for long time passionately, may give some soreness.
@44ddds, there should not be any territorial markings in nursing. Nursing is mutual surrender to each other.
@grandetetas, sorry to hear. You should have told him to stop as soon as he started biting and hurting you. Communication is essential. More reason to be firm if guy don’t listen. I have heard some women really getting hurt badly.
Hope everyone will practice safe and enjoyable nursing!!!@nick he wasn’t biting
That’s a shame that the has no concern for your well-being. Some people are just narrow minded and selfish 🙄.
Regardless of what he THOUGHT he was doing, he should have the care consideration and RESPECT to listen to you and ,above all things,not hurt you, but cherish what you were sharing with him! It is guys like that who make it very difficult for couples to meet up.I apologise to you for his disrespect!
I agree. I’m sorry for my carelessness. I had never had an experience like that before. And I will be more careful in the future. I really appreciate the honest feedback.
Wait… Tom? You hurt her?
And you’re addressing it here, publicly, with a lame ass excuse about not understanding how flesh works?! She says she’s legitimately injured and you thank her for the feedback?? Get the F out.
@nicholeh soooo sorry to hear you had such a bad experience. I hope you heal well physically/mentally and find a partner who is caring and respectful.
@tomc8 Your partner’s comfort is the top priority. This public apology is half-assed and could have been kept to yourself. Your negligence harmed a beautiful member of our community who willingly shared herself with you. She sustained open wounds, WTF! Re-evaluate what TF you are doing, find a partner who likes what you are doing or remove yourself from the community. No woman should ever leave a session in that condition, especially if your actions weren’t a mutual decision.
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