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Hi everyone I need advice for how to I can better find an ANR partner or what I can do to change up my profile it seems like there’s no local people for me I just need to find someone or if I’m doing something wrong please help me out just message me
Hi Ben. I remember you posting something similar maybe a year ago and a number of members gave advice to maybe try other dating sites not just abf sites and not having all your eggs in one basket. Have you done this, if so have you had meets?
You say there is no one local to you but are you prepared to travel or relocate to meet someone? If so have you looked into this and if not how do you expect to meet someone?
What efforts have you made other then posting in the men seeking section?
Abf/anr is so rare to find and I see from most of your posts that you are looking a woman who is already lactating. Do you realise how even more rare that is even on a site like this? If you are serious about meeting a lactating woman you might never ever get to experience abf at all. It would also limit the amount of women who might respond. If i see a man looking lactating women and im dry i certainly wpuldnt message him.
Like i said previously I was 8 years or more searching for abf.
If you are serious about meeting someone lactating you might never ever experience abfI agree with the that and yes I probably did and I should’ve known but I forgot
@bencorts32 I agree with everything @juicyboobies has stated. I would add that when I see a man advertising for a lactating woman that tells me they are not very serious about abf or anr. Instead, they are looking for an experience only and they don’t seem serious. A man that is truly interested in abf is willing and interested in putting in the effort and time to make that happen, not just a one time (or few times) experience.
A true male supporter of abf anr, if interested in lactation, values being part of the process, not just on the receiving end.
Yes so if you and @juicyboobies can help me but just see what I can do to improve my profile i would greatly appreciate thank you so much
Improving your profile won’t change who you are, take a step back, stop posting constantly as it seems like attention seeking, get to know some of the lovely woman on here.
This isn’t a trip to the local maccas for a takeaway meal, it’s a commitment, it’s about the person.
If you chose to talk to people and build bonds, then everything else will follow
Benathan nailed it. You want milk. Find a milk maid. Ive had zero issues finding ABF/ANR. I found my soulmate on here, thanks to Micheal. It just takes 2 people that has or wants ABF/ANR. And build on that. You sound like you want milk, not a relationship.
I agree but I’m trying Reddit and it seems to work well but I’m sure I’ll be successful here if I just keep trying and talking to people
If I might add, don’t DM women who answer you publicly, especially if their profile says not to. Offering advice publicly does not mean they want to DM with you. Just because all your public communications ask for people to DM you, even though you asked publicly, doesn’t mean they want to engage any farther with you. It gives off creepy stalker vibes and assures you’ll end up blocked.
I agree that @Foxgoddess I’m sorry if I do that and maybe I’ll just let them message me
I would like to apologize to anyone for being such a creep and I’m just trying to find a partner but I need ti be more honest and just read each profile carefully and just wait to message people
You may want to reflect on what you’re bringing to the table, as well. Your posts and profile are all about what you want, which seems to be milk, but nothing about why someone else may find you compelling or giving a sense of who you are. If there isn’t anything about you that’s interesting, then work on yourself to become interesting, so that people will naturally be attracted to you. Also, when you private message someone, just saying “hello” and giving your name (which is the same as your handle) doesn’t really get a conversation started. Non-creepy compliments, not generic questions, or mentioning something about them from their profile, will generate more of a conversation. My 2 cents.
That’s something to consider at @effervescent1 and I do want to be more interesting and yes when I do message people I shouldn’t just say hello but what something better to say and I just want to be better but please can you look over my profile and if you see something that I can do to make myself more interesting then message me thank you
Just curious, why are you requesting she DM you when you have posted for advice publicly? That’s kind of what I was talking about above.
Also, have you acted on any of the advice given to you already? You’ve been given a lot of great tips and ideas since last week. Have you done any of them? If not, why not? If not, your requests come off as extremely insincere.
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