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To get it out of the way, right at the start: I like suckling, nursing, call it what you will. The warmth of that connection, the simultaneous deep relaxation and the electrical intensity of it are like nothing else, and once I fall into it I never want to come up for air. A relationship with someone who feels the same about it is a magical thing.
The thing is, more or less all of us on here want that – and besides, in my experience relationships can’t be as simple as having that one thing in common. Breasts are wonderful, but what’s important to me is that they’re your breasts, if you know what I mean. And it’s wonderful to be suckled upon, too, but what makes it so special is that the person nursing away, latched and blissful, is the partner you’ve chosen to share this with. It’s all about the specifics.
So what I’d love to find, if not in London then elsewhere in the UK, would be someone I connect with first and foremost, ideally before trying any ABF. Somebody inquisitive and interesting, in their thirties or forties, looking to build something a little bit strange and – excuse the floweriness – more than a bit magical.
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The devil’s in the details, so some much more particular info about me (aside from the whole brown eyes, dark/greying hair, 5’6″ side of things):
– I like to cook for people I care about. I got into the habit of cooking for my flatmates during lockdown and it’s stuck, which has helped during the time I’ve been single. A link between food and affection, on here of all places – who’d have thought it, eh.
– I like music. Lots of music, from Pink Floyd to Plastikman to Pentangle: really, my taste isn’t so much eclectic as a total hodgepodge. I’ve not been to a proper festival in years, but enjoy small gigs and discovering bands/artists I’ve never heard before.
– I read The Left Hand of Darkness for the first time last year and I don’t know what took me so long. I loved The Bloody Chamber and can probably still quote Discworld novels (not to mention The Third Policeman) from twenty years ago. Currently trying to make a dent in Alan Moore’s Jerusalem but my gosh it’s a doorstop.
– Chris Morris and Alan Partridge are still great.
– Last November I planted an apple tree in a council garden near my block of flats, so that neighbours will have fruit to pick in a few years. It’s my first time trying to grow anything since I moved to London a decade ago. Right now I’m hoping that the buds finally open… and that the council never notices.
Ach, I’ve written way too much, haven’t I. Thank you for reading, and doubly so if you made it all the way to the end.
Hi Cassidy,
I don’t think you wrote enough, it is lovely to read your post and I thoroughly enjoyed reading about you and your personality shone through each and every word you wrote. Thanks for making me smile knowing that there are very nice people like on this site. I am very happy to see that.
Best,
Sin
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