25 M4F SoCal San Diego – Gentle Nursing? I’m your guy!

Howdy all! I’m a bi guy looking for a genuine, and heartfelt poly relationship.

About me: I’m a tallish (6’0), strongish (Gym every other day since last year), and all around kindhearted dude who’s looking for a sweet person in my world. I’m more than happy to provide pics in any DM’s, I’ve also been called cute by almost everyone I know, so there’s that. I’ve got a cute head of curly black hair, streaked with silver here and there, and a beard that’s got some copper in it as well. For the last year I’ve really been focusing on getting back into shape, and that’s meant going to the gym four times a week here. I just wrapped up law school and am so damn happy to be back in San Diego.

I’m a renaissance man in a lot of ways, but my big things are my authorship and my passion for cooking and gardening. Just as well, I’m a sucker for a really, really, hard hike! This year I did a good bit of the Smokies, Mammoth, and a few smaller hikes here and there. I may sound like a bit of a busy person, but between work and a bunch of tiny passion projects, I promise you I make the time for the people in my life first and foremost!

Now for all things NSFW: I’m fairly experienced, and I know that I’m a switch, although the dynamic depends on the person. Outside of ANR/Hucow (Check my profile), I’m into a few other adjacent kinks, specifically breast worship. I do also sometimes enjoy Dom/sub dynamics, pet play, and lately I’ve really been getting back into hypno and hypno adjacent stuff. My vision of dominance is something where I melt you in my palm – pleasure dom work. The brain is the most powerful pleasure center in the body, and getting your head in the right space is my goal. At the same time, I am very much a switch, and appreciate submitting just as much! In all this, I also really, really love writing. Roleplay is a lot of fun, especially if we can really set a scene with both salivate over.

I’m also poly, and have multiple partners. I live with one, and the other lives in Colorado. They each have their own partners, and all of us date independently. I’ve been doing polyamory for almost five years now, and while I naturally appreciate people who have experience with it, I am an open book if you’re unsure or have questions.

Now – *you*

I need you to be a passionate person. There’s just something absolutely amazing about meeting someone who’s got a desire to do great things in their life. Those great things don’t need to be big or massive, but they do need to be important to you. There’s nothing I’d love more in the world than to hear you go on and on and on about your passions while I listen and pick your brain.

Body-wise, I am very much a boobs person, beyond that, I do generally prefer more plus-sized women – but like I said earlier, I love hikes and outdoors stuff! Healthy comes in all sizes, and my preferred size is healthily plush.

Relationship-wise, I want to be upfront – I want someone who’s interested in something more than just sex. I’m settling into my life here, and I’m really trying to build a world for myself and the people I love. I want you to be a part of that world, honestly I’m looking for love here! Love can be platonic, can be romantic, can be unique, but I’d like a relationship that’s got real meat on the bone to it.

If you’re interested, please DM with your age and location – I’m open to people all around SoCal, but I hiiiiighly prioritize people here in San Diego.