I found your post interesting. I think yes, men into abf were probably emotionally neglected as a baby and they had their mothers love withdrawn from an early age and seek abf to relive that close connection with their mother that was taken from them. Psychologically it makes a lot of sense. I think men on here are looking for a deep connection which abf would offer them. Im not sure its totally unhealthy as obtaining abf may help them a lot, but it may not be what the women wants in the dynamic. Thats my take anyway but I think your on to something. Also maybe if they were bottle fed they seek a maternal connection they never had