Totally agree, unless it is for genuine friendship without benefits (no nudes, camming etc). I got quite disheartened here due to men pretending to want a proper relationship when I initially joined and not really being serious about their intentions. I won’t name them, but one was from the US and initially wanted friendship then when he suggested a date to meet (and I agreed), I was ghosted; the other was local to me and less than 30 min away, always busy due to work/commitments etc (but actually always online here talking to other women).
Like Steve said, I get that men like our assets and bodies, but we have feelings, we are not a milk bar, or a quick fix or a snack. If your intentions are just a hook-up, sporadic sex, or friends with benefits say so from the start. I get that many guys will pretend to want a relationship just to get some nudes, dirty talk, sexting or even an affair/hook-up sex, but that is being dishonest;it’s also manipulation. The end is NOT justified by the means and Karma is real.
There are also some men here that are free, genuinely willing and seeking a partner and perhaps being played on by women who are not single or not even planning to meet. This type of behaviour feeds the ego, not the soul…and will leave you unsatisfied in the long run but also isn’t very nice. What comes around goes around…
Life is hard enough, everyone deserves a significant other they can trust and feel at ease with, please be mindful of your interactions. The above nonsense and a few other things drove me to calling it quits with relationships at all for the near future and while I am ok with it, it did hurt at the time and for many people it can cause serious distress and even, mental health issues.