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So why do “some “ men get offended the woman answered their of “what are you looking for?” And the answer does not fit their expectations.
Then the women explains why she doesn’t like it and in their reply they say you are “negative” and that the woman is supposed to pretend to be agreeable or accepting to their fantasies or idea of what they want out of having a woman nurse them.
I just told a guy that I did not want to be a Mommy, reason I don’t want to role play with a diaper, cleaning up #1,#2 or #3 and nursing at the same time.
I do not want to breed or act like I am breeding reason why bring a person in the world based on having be a lot of sex?
So yes you need tough skin when “some” men or women get aggressive/ passive aggressive/ try to shame you into something that is not right for you.LOL it is amazing what some guys expect on the dating sites , but i guess it takes all kinds to make the world go around 😂
MEN….BE A FREAKING HUMAN BEING !!!!!
All I can say is….NOT EVERY MAN IS LIKE THAT
Well said. Stating your limits is just honesty, not being negative. If someone isn’t into specific roleplay, that boundary should be respected without passive-aggressive pushback.
Too many people aren’t used to being told no and they think throwing a fit will help them get what they want.
There’s a BLOCK button for that. No explanation needed, not your obligation to teach them to be a fully formed adult.
Oh, absolutely not! Since when did having a fantasy mean someone else is obligated to entertain it? You don’t want to play Mommy, change diapers, or participate in breeding fantasies. End of discussion!
And you certainly don’t owe anyone a detailed explanation of WHY. No is a complete answer, and frankly, so is blocking someone who can’t respect it.
What bothers me most is this expectation that women should somehow soften their boundaries to protect feelings. We are allowed to be uninterested, uncomfortable, or simply unwilling without being labeled negative or difficult.
You don’t need thicker skin, sweetheart. They need to learn to hear the word NO without making it your problem…in my ever so humble opinion.
To out it bluntly, it shouldn’t really matter if not all men are like that. It’s not exactly the kind of response women would like to hear, especially women who experienced men who were exactly “like that”. We should learn how to handle ourselves and mature from negative experiences with more humility and respect, and this post should help those who don’t get it get closer to understanding it.
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