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September 8, 2020 at 6:39 am #7091
The first one is. ..Is it common for members to be untruthful about their location?
2. When getting to know someone, Is there any topics that should be off limits? IE: religion, political preference. I’m curious because to me I think we should know a bit before we meet someone. I hate to scare someone away for using words that apparently should not be uttered in a Harmless discussion . I’m thinking a list should be created
September 8, 2020 at 10:55 am #7093Aj,
1 – no it’s not normal. The vast majority of members are where they say they are (approximately).
2 – on the website, I would generally discourage discussion of politics & religion. It’s not what we are here for, it’s much too divisive and it always generates a lot of heat and very little light.
As regards meeting prospective new partners on a date and discussing politics …hmmm, sounds risky. I don’t know.
September 8, 2020 at 4:18 pm #7101thank you Michael for your insight
September 8, 2020 at 6:11 pm #7102AJ
I think it would be a good idea to stay away from religion and politics. I am sure there are other things to talk about to get to know that person.
What they like about ANR.
Are they looking for a full time relationship? Do they like wet or dry nursing.If both are on the same page for nursing then see if you have any other common interests.
I believe this to be a safe guideline without hurting anyone’s feelings or making someone mad. This is just my opinion.
September 8, 2020 at 8:18 pm #7109I’d say on the website, keep it “PC” as suggested above -for the exact reasons stated. As for getting to know somebody you’d consider getting intimate with, wouldn’t you want to get to know that person -or would you not? It all depends on what’s important in life to you. Everyone’s different.
If you’re just looking to hook up or have a one night stand, I don’t think it matters. To many, religion and politics aren’t important, so that’s a win/win, right? Again, everyone’s different.
The fact is, not everybody is going to like you -or me… because we’re all different. That’s OK. Some will. That’s just how the cookie crumbles.
September 8, 2020 at 8:47 pm #7111thank you ladies. for your views on the matter
September 10, 2020 at 2:18 pm #7162AnonymousInactiveMy personal opinion, politics and religion are good topics but they should be discussed with people that you know better than a stranger..
I found people are pretty truthful about their location.
I would sincerely like to find someone an hour or closer to me for a long-term steady mutually satisfying relationship but that so far has been very elusive
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