How to respond to the question of lactating

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  • #699542
    Dakota I Westlake
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    Hi all seeking advice on how to respond once I’m lactating but people professionally etc that know I don’t have kids but needing to pump and if I leak what do I say ?

    #699545
    K
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Male
    • USA
    • Idaho

    I reached out to a lactation consultant for help under the guise that I wanted to be a milk donor. She completely bought into it and didn’t think anything of it.

    #699546
    TechieSFBay
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    How about: I don’t share personal medical information at the office. Thank you for respecting my privacy.

    In other words, it’s none of their business.

    #699593
    Cut Tan
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Washington state

    Great question!

    I agree with TechieSFBay’s “nunya business” comment!

    1. I imagine you can/should pump in private?
    2. Could you carry a (neutral-color) jacket to hide your breasts (if there is a leak or carry/wear nursing pads? If at a work place, how would an onlooker surmise/know that it is a leak or a spilled drink/soup etc? (What I have noticed is: bigger the breasts, higher the odds that spills land on them! :-))

    As K says: medical professionals should not bother you unless they think/decide they have reason to be concerned. (Even still, it is your life! For example, many moons ago, I knew a friend who had a medical condition that caused her to lactate all the time, even after her daughter was weaned. I imagine ‘professionals’ should know about such scenarios?)

    #699597
    Dakota I Westlake
    Participant
    • Female
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • California

    I hadn’t thought of nursing pads makes sense and pumping would be in my office which is private . Good point

    #699635
    Nick
    Participant
    • Male
    • Looking for: Female
    • USA
    • Massachusetts

    I agree with what K said. That’s the perfect response. If I was a lactating woman that is what I would say too lol.

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