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I often come across women who just want to be suckled but without any sexual desires and no touching anywhere else.
I find it so hard (no pun intended) to not be really turned on when seeing a naked breast let alone touching or latching on.
How do other men cope when asked to suckle in a non sexual way?Personally I don’t find it difficult at all. Suckling is suckling, sex is sex. If a lady says she is happy to take her bra off she has not said anything about her pants.
However, I am a bit of a breastfeeding purist, the intimacy of suckling, hugging and trust is the objective in itself for me and I don’t see it as a means to something else.
I understand if others see it differently, each to their own, and you are right John it is vitally important for guys to control themselves.John, I too find breastfeeding to be erotic in nature. It is possible to limit any imposition it that may arise.
Have a discussion with a potential partner. Set boundaries. Agree to ground rules. When suckling, position yourself to keep from imposing upon her space. These are a couple of things I do.Guys, I really appreciate this topic!! Let me thank you for your thoughfulness.
This shows its important to discuss this before any suckling takes place.
Its each to their own. If a woman does not wa t sex and you know its difficult for you not to be turned on, ask yourself if its wise to meet up.
To me suckling is very erotic mostly. Its natural to be turned on by it. I personally dont have a problem there. But: thats still nothi g said about my pants. Sex has always to be agreed on at that moment.Suckling and no eroticism = Boring. Of course always with consent. Could be the prettiest and have the best breasts on the planet – just doesn’t do it for me, and this is subjective…just my preference.
It’s very intimate and has different impact on everyone. It’s always good to talk it out beforehand and respect the limits your partner sets. Move on if you don’t agree.
Once you start, relationship may evolve into more and both partners can express their desires and expectations.
Many can’t get involved into sexual aspect right from beginning. It takes time to develop trust.Thank you all for your comments so far. Boundaries must be respected at all times. Being turned on doesn’t mean that sex should follow, women talk about nipplegasms so could the man be helped physically to have his own orgasm?
I think it depends on the relationship dynamic.
ABF – perhaps solely for nursing, or perhaps as a precursor to more.ANR – possibly only nursing involved. But more likely that the individuals committed to consistent nursing are committed to more.
Ideally for me, ANR will be between me and an individual, equally committed to each other’s health, well being, and joy. Not every nursing session would be sexual. And certainly not all sex would involve nursing.
Sorry sam, dont like the example with my nickname in it.
Abf is not about sex to me either. Its about that deep connection.
My point is that arousal can occur, both in the female and the male. Its natural and nothing to worry or panic about. May be its wise to talk about it before meeting up and decide if its an option or not. No agreement on this can mean no meeting.
Of course you make clear you really dont want sex. Say so before meeting.
Calling out like Bad girl would make me very angry. Women are shamed too often for their feelings.@john: if both agreed on sex, of course.
I had one partner master bate before I arrived, just so HIS emotions and desires didn’t take over the nursing.
Nursing is erotic but it is also calming, soothing and nurturing for me.. not exactly sexy. Which is why for me, I can enjoy nursing without it leading to sex and I love to nurse for hours. Stroking his face, his hair, and his back. It’s sweet and loving.
Yes, i also can enjoy nursing without sex, like you describe it, btrfly. Thats beautiful.
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Set the boundaries, ABF is exactly that. Keep your trousers on, control yourself. Enjoy the ABF.Hehe, sometimes my trousers do come off QD – but it’s not what you think – it is only if I have accidentally worn a belt that digs in during the hugs. Usually though, I do remember to wear my belt with the suckle buckle 🤣🤣
A belt or buckle is to be avoided during ABF sessions for the reasons above. For comfort, I recommend wearing braces (or suspenders to US readers).
That said I frequently don’t wear trousers at all, preferring to wear only suspenders (or garters to US readers).
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