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I’m trying myself to figure out where I fall on this…
As someone who is looking for a “forever” partner, would you rather
(A) Meet someone who checks nearly all your “Boxes” but does not share an interest in ANR.
(B) Meet someone who shares and meets your ANR expectations, but doesn’t necessarily check your other “Boxes”
Feel free to add a (C) in your feedback if there’s something specific you’re looking for that you’re unwilling to budge on.
For me, ANR is the Alpha and the Omega of a viable relationship. So you can put me squarely in the “B” column. Those “other qualities” are important, but to take a quote from the movie “Chariots of Fire”…”You can’t put in what God’s left out”. And that’s not a reference to “size”…lol.
B, all day long. After all is that why we are all on this amazing site for. IDK. Just me thinking out loud.
Thanks Jacob.Most of us would probably go for (B) because it is the easier option, but perhaps an (A) could be persuaded to become a (B). We all had a time when we didn’t know about ABF, or weren’t into it yet, so in the (A) situation I would say don’t give up too easily.
I’m a forever dreamer and want it all. ANR on its own wouldn’t be enough for me if I didn’t share the same core values, emotional connection and attraction with a partner.
To me C. B is ok, but i know i want and ofcourse dream to have it all. Partner who is in ANR with her whole heart and mind. Loves me as im, weird viking from north who still needs warmth and softness of woman… Connectin all in will make life good and happy, and if i may say so, boob loving too! 🙂
C for me…My husband checks all my boxes, we have an amazing marriage but he isn’t into the lifestyle as much as I would like. I fulfill my ANR with close female relationships. Wouldn’t change a thing
Let me start off by saying grate question! I would firmly place myself in the B column. I have been in relationships with and with out adult nursing. For me it’s no longer an option. As I get older I feel that there are many things that I am willing to compromise on. The important things to me are; sharing the same morals, values, and both of us seeing adult nursing as a form of love and intimacy. It being a part of daily life.
Great question!!! I stand with Panda-esque.
I was in an A. Not ideal. B wouldnt be either, although I know very well I am not perfect myself.
At this point in life: i truly am not quickly committing again. I am careful and want to be sure i am able to completely go for it again. Not sure I am ready. May be because I was badly hurt, like a lot of us. Not giving up, but feeling well on my own. I grew to loving my freedom very much.
Who knows what the future holds. For now: I am in C: I want it all!!Thank you all for your feedback.
@canadianguy would you care to clarify…. Perhaps I’m confused. It appears you’re saying you would sacrifice other things for the sake of ANR, but then you say morals and values must align. So, would that place you in a (C) category, where morals, values and ANR are a must?I feel like ANR is a limiting factor already, you effectively reduce your portion of the population that you can match with, by a great percentage. Each box you need checked, reduces your chances even further. But I agree, if you don’t check the right boxes, chances of success are reduced as well. It’s daunting…
It’s a problem. One of my old mathematics teachers told me once that A+B=C 🤔
I guess I am “it depends” option B – meaning if there are no deal breakers then yes the other boxes do not have to all be checked as they were nice to have things in a relationship anyway.
I cannot be in a relationship where deal breakers are present as that leads to relationship downfall. If that means I am part of group c then that is me.
Definitely A for me. I need to have good chemistry with the person and a solid respect for him. Without that, ANR would be meaningless to me.
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