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I know for the majority of us, our family is not aware of our interest in ANR/ABF. I do wonder if this is something people ever talk about with their friends?
All of my friends are kink friendly people, so they all know about it and I have no issues discussing it with them. Though it’s rarely brought up since none of my friends have a interest in ANR/ABF.
If your friends know about it how did they find out? Does it ever come up in a dating conversation in the way you would bring up any other dating subject? Such as not having any hobbies in common, a lack of chemistry on a date, mismatched relationship goals, etc.
No one knows about our ANR relationship-other than we are together as a ‘normal” couple. Sites like this are our outlet as it’s hard to find a partner in the normal dating world without being able to tell them you are looking to a LTR ANR partner
I’ve only brought it up with my best friend, and she was a bit taken aback, but she encourages me to live life so she is supportive!
No. At the start of topic, usually they take it as a joke or some snide remarks comes out. This site is good relief to talk and discuss about our this interest. It is always nice to find someone who like to chat about ANR.
@lusciousliz, you are lucky to have friends with whom you can talk about this subject.Its hard to talk about, although it seems so natural.
I’ve told 2 of my close, long term friends – and the responce was overall positive. I suppose I told them because I knew they would be accepting.
But it’s not something I wouldn’t share easily with someone I just started seeing.Mainly, I wish there were more positive, well known public portrayals of abf…unrelated to porn. That people start to become aware that this even exists.
No way! I don’t think it will ever happen either. It’s too private, in my opinion and none of anyone else’s business.
Only friends that I’ve met through this site or other similar venues know of my love and deep passionate need for nursing.
Which is why I’m very grateful for this site. Because it allows me to be able to find community where i can be open about at the very least, this always hidden part of myself.
It’s also been interesting to learn how many different meanings, desires and perspectives there are in the adult breast feeding world. As a side note.
I had told my truely best friend that I’ve told everything. He thought it was awful. I recently told a good friend who was telling me about her and her husband recently opting to open up her marriage and the S&M kink that her new boyfriend shares with her. It sounded pretty vanilla as I told her after her electro shock kink stuff lol
I’m widowed with no children and it was my late husband who introduced me to ANR. His parents used it as a natural contraceptive between pregnancies (while baby was still suckling too of course). They are staunch Catholics and had 8 babies in 16-ish years. They loved it so much they continued after their last baby, well beyond her menopause and still to this day, well into their 70’s. Now they are retired they indulge anything up to 8 times a day. They are open about it all with their children and children’s spouses etc.
They taught all of their children about it and all of them have done it at some point, some still do. They are all staunch Catholics too and it’s believed that ANR / ABF is in the Bible so they are very positive about it all.
My husband and I dry suckled for 19 months before his death but planned the whole lifestyle when we had a family. Sadly it was not to be but the ANR we did have was idylic.
I’ve discussed ANR / ABF often with my mother and sisters in law and it’s just an accepted thing among the whole family.
My own mum and sisters know that my late husband suckled from me and I know that my sisters’ husbands have all tried their milk from the tap so to speak when they were breastfeeding their babies.
I also have a good pen pal who has been researching ABF and ANR for many years and is a font of knowledge and great to speak to. There’s nothing she doesn’t know about it and she’s interviewed people from all over the world about it.
I’m really lucky in that I have lots of people already in my life to discuss with 🙂
@lucy84 you are lucky to have such a wonderful open family and friends.
Negatron. I’m with Water Lily that it is between a partner and myself.
My friends, you have allowed me to enjoy the camaraderie of our group.
As Nurturing Bosom puts it, we are a tribe. My family and friends wouldn’t understand this desire of mine.
I’m glad that there are folks here and on other sites that do understand. 🤗Thank you @breastlover
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Indeed, I know I am 🙂Thank you @lucy84 for the description of your healthy and happy family featuring nursing between spouses as common knowledge, shared by parents as righteously joyous heritage. This is how I plan to be. Your family is a splendid model.
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