ABF Heaven | Site-Wide Activity https://abfheaven.com/activity/ Activity feed for the entire site. Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:20:42 +0000 https://buddypress.org/?v=11.6.3 en-US 30 hourly 2 2a7b5c188a4e61c07ee6d64528a0f54a david replied to the topic **** Head Count- Women only* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-women-only/#post-845305 Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:18:42 +0000 Head count is not the same as body count. But we understand what you are saying

]]> da1f4f0f640014107b967a1b9917b986 @mobchip replied to the topic Less venting and pen-pal talk, more real-world ABF/ANR follow-through in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/less-venting-and-pen-pal-talk-more-real-world-abf-anr-follow-through/#post-845302 Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:13:44 +0000 Nobody is saying people cannot share thoughts or experiences. The point is that when a connection forum becomes 95% venting and zero real-world follow-through, it stops working for the people who are actually here to meet someone.

]]> 857e6ef10d124edb87d810c7d3f375a2 BLACKDOLLFACE replied to the topic Northern Virginia / Wanting someone to suck on me in the forum Personal Ads - Women Seeking https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/northern-va-wanting-someone-to-suck-on-me/#post-845301 Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:12:56 +0000 Nice breasts.

]]> 91b5fead70ce51efc3b1366e939cfc4a @mobchip replied to the topic Less venting and pen-pal talk, more real-world ABF/ANR follow-through in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/less-venting-and-pen-pal-talk-more-real-world-abf-anr-follow-through/#post-845300 Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:12:21 +0000 Totally agree that guys acting like jerks in messages deserve to get screened out immediately. That is just smart vetting. Where we are saying the same thing is that all the constant venting and bad behavior is exactly why real meetups stall out, which leaves the whole board feeling stuck in pen-pal mode.

]]> 2d68b45fa14e4aa8cf67b2cea84e7a73 @mobchip replied to the topic Less venting and pen-pal talk, more real-world ABF/ANR follow-through in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/less-venting-and-pen-pal-talk-more-real-world-abf-anr-follow-through/#post-845299 Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:10:42 +0000 Nowhere in my post did I say to rush into anything or skip proper vetting. Taking time to build trust and make sure both people are comfortable is basic common sense. My point was about people who never intend to meet anyone in the first place using General Discussion strictly for endless venting and fantasy storytelling while complaining about…Read more

]]> c317f79d786c3cfb41754f58f4c05766 Cassius and Joaster(*)(*) are now friends https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445278/ Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:06:38 +0000 bec3df899fff97d7f3a6a2d06ec91d35 Daniel and Milky way are now friends https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445277/ Sun, 15 Nov 2026 00:04:15 +0000 2edff5127b24b1dc88c6e0e71c2c4bdf Sachin replied to the topic **** Head Count- Women only* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-women-only/#post-845291 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:47:23 +0000 For the record I’m a man.
I second everything (except of course the numbers) that @mmmmtex says above. I personally find “Head Count” offensive. Im in here because I love ANR/ABF and want to enjoy my time with my partner. Not to “keep count” of meets or sessions. Im new and still have 0, for the record but Id be repelled if the woman Im with is…Read more

]]> 46ee3fe9bbc14e7fbc1228c319d5baab BLACKDOLLFACE replied to the topic Our Little Secret Club in the forum Personal Ads - Women Seeking https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/our-little-secret-club/#post-845290 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:45:01 +0000 This seems fun but it also seems to risky but, some people are into risky things. Me personally, I prefer a one on one type of thing with another woman. Three women together suckling each other would be the limit for me if I was into that sort of thing but, that’s me and I understand that not everyone thinks how I think. And, also, physical…Read more

]]> 3c9a275e6af963e6e4c65b5305fd2ef0 Destiny changed their profile picture https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445273/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:25:32 +0000 98503d7177d6cf356fad01b44003f360 Korsto's profile was updated https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445272/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:22:24 +0000 62816abc665f76af1525f52617367ebf Destiny replied to the topic ***HEAD COUNT- For MEN* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-for-men/#post-845285 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:21:56 +0000 @xtk440 What are your intentions?

]]> b112e6a9573826e3ee39b73cdbd09669 Logan became a registered member https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445270/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:19:21 +0000 736cc1183145b0e91c0c4893aadde7ae Destiny replied to the topic **** Head Count- Women only* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-women-only/#post-845283 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:17:57 +0000 I have met many.
Off and on for unknown time exactly but under 3 years.

]]> 0d8b5ac1687a86282c5e5b8114c176a8 Destiny replied to the topic Less venting and pen-pal talk, more real-world ABF/ANR follow-through in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/less-venting-and-pen-pal-talk-more-real-world-abf-anr-follow-through/#post-845282 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:16:07 +0000 This post feels like a you told everyone to quit complaining and “wasting time” just get to the nursing. The lack of emotional sensitivity here is glaring. I would not ever offer anyone with your mindset a seat at my bosom.

]]> 109117aae5674d0c5e18777b58b8bfcb Kira became a registered member https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445267/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 23:06:46 +0000 0b70297a5a43506f95b80dd06d00dfab Qualitydrink ๐Ÿด๓ ง๓ ข๓ ฅ๓ ฎ๓ ง๓ ฟ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜Ž changed their profile picture https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445266/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 22:52:38 +0000 57a7e5d77e57c9d064f3ab3eb4fe5d78 HoneyDove replied to the topic Ladies lactation roundtable 2.0 in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/ladies-lactation-roundtable-2-0/page/5/#post-845279 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 22:51:18 +0000 Oh boy, this is my first post, but looks like I joined this website just in time for the Nov 15 date? Is it open to all women even new members? Iโ€™m on PST and would love to stop by tomorrow. 💕

]]> 74cdce1a945922760116344ccf229e7c Chocbunni changed their profile picture https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445264/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 22:44:03 +0000 6b3d5b332ed35c89b4c583713e3dd7b9 Qualitydrink ๐Ÿด๓ ง๓ ข๓ ฅ๓ ฎ๓ ง๓ ฟ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜Ž replied to the topic ***HEAD COUNT- For MEN* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-for-men/#post-845261 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 22:31:43 +0000 1) prefer not to say, as it looks bad.
2) 34 months. Banned for 3 days.

]]> f98a8e0e808d34ec680e3b62486081c4 xtk 440 replied to the topic ***HEAD COUNT- For MEN* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-for-men/#post-845260 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 22:24:57 +0000 Not here to meet.

Heard of this site a year or so ago, finally joined last month.

]]> aaebc5255486e6054c7671a0aa5948af J and SuckleMyDDDs are now friends https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445260/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 22:06:57 +0000 5b834d9f524bde51857440dbe600f8b8 Jon and SuckleMyDDDs are now friends https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445259/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 22:06:39 +0000 332d6e486a03ee3e4ed313636b46a89d Florence replied to the topic **** Head Count- Women only* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-women-only/#post-845248 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 21:51:53 +0000 1) 3
2) 8 mths off and on

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You may want to reword the title to the threads or rephrase what you are asking.

1) 7 ~i.e. coffee dates
2) 12 months (cumulative)

โ˜… This has been the best site for me to meet others from the ANR/ABF community.

]]> 8e2342bc762410ec1948336ac73ad72c Danie changed their profile picture https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445239/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 20:14:40 +0000 baa76cb36b916f319519399757733b21 MizzLizz replied to the topic **** Head Count- Women only* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-women-only/#post-845157 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:48:22 +0000 1) lost count
2) maybe 14 months

]]> f1cc0f86cde76371c9767ffb05f752fc David replied to the topic Less venting and pen-pal talk, more real-world ABF/ANR follow-through in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/less-venting-and-pen-pal-talk-more-real-world-abf-anr-follow-through/#post-845156 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:48:15 +0000 @lizzybeth 🤣🤣🤣

]]> cf1f4bfbac537906a4264d78625df4f7 Giovi's profile was updated https://abfheaven.com/activity/p/445233/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:46:14 +0000 07122a66b293f2a0dd4f4d092fc73ded Darkhorse75 replied to the topic ***HEAD COUNT- For MEN* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-for-men/#post-845154 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:36:54 +0000 1 person
36 months on site

]]> 825f9c292600ecd06f8b1f147bdd3675 David replied to the topic ***HEAD COUNT- For MEN* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-for-men/#post-845151 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:34:51 +0000 * anyone Iโ€™ve met

]]> 1e967f6ede2411331bd33e800505e17c David replied to the topic ***HEAD COUNT- For MEN* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-for-men/#post-845150 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:33:13 +0000 1) no oneโ€™s business but mine and anytime meet
2) on my profile

]]> 098b5b37f777fe2181889fa73a101b1c david started the topic **** Head Count- Women only* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-women-only/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:17:12 +0000 Hello Female Members to comment only.

lets do a quick head count to see how many people you have met on here and how long. just respond to the comment with the number and how long you have been a member on here just about, to keep it consistent lets have :

1)# of people met
2)# of months on the site

If you are a male please comment on the male…Read more

]]> ff6950c215fe02822bb925f79e88d08e david started the topic ***HEAD COUNT- For MEN* in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/head-count-for-men/ Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:15:47 +0000 Hello Male Members to comment only.

lets do a quick head count to see how many people you have met on here and how long. just respond to the comment with the number and how long you have been a member on here just about, to keep it consistent lets have :

1)# of people met
2)# of months on the site

Example.
Me:
1)3 people
2)48 months

]]> df0d86e8250e879e442f7ab98a14c165 david replied to the topic Less venting and pen-pal talk, more real-world ABF/ANR follow-through in the forum General Discussion https://abfheaven.com/forums/topic/less-venting-and-pen-pal-talk-more-real-world-abf-anr-follow-through/#post-845143 Sat, 14 Nov 2026 19:13:00 +0000 lets do a quick pulse check. How many men on here have actually met someone on here. I will start in a new thread to see if it is all pen talk

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